We are getting married in July 2008. I am really wanting a baby (and my fiance is). But dont wanna be fat at wedding! Im trying to loose some at the mo for it dont wanna put it back on!!! hahaha. Have been on pill for 3 and half years. I am planning to come off pill at xmas and use other types of protection till around wedding then start trying. What do you think?
2007-03-12 09:35:46 · 15 answers · asked by Fairy Dust :*:*: 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
I would just stick with the pill... I wouldnt try until the honeymoon...good luck and congrats!
2007-03-12 09:40:50 · answer #1 · answered by michaellandonsmommy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't rush having a baby after your wedding. Take time to be with your husband and enjoy the married life before adding a baby.
I have a 6 month old and nothing is ever the same. Babies require a lot of time. Husbands sometimes get jelaous and new conflicts appear sometimes. I love being a mom, and i'm glad we waited 2 years.
Talk to your doctor about when it's best to stop taking the pill. I couldn't get pregnant for a year after i stopped, but not all cases are the same.
Good luck and congrats!!
2007-03-12 09:44:01 · answer #2 · answered by mozymozart 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd wait until the honeymoon, or after. No matter how long you've known or been iwth your fiance, you are going to want some time alone as a married couple, without pregnancy. If you want to try to get pregnant on the honeymoon, stop your birth control 1 to 2 months before the wedding.
Good luck! And congratulations!
2007-03-12 09:43:05 · answer #3 · answered by Kaja 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are the two of you? Are you healthy? Waiting awhile is a good idea if you are young so you can establish couplehood as people instead of parents. What do your parents/aunts/grandparents recommend? This is an exciting time for you! Congratulations.
We are going to get married this Spring and were using VCF (Vag. Contraceptive Foam). I filled the applicator but forgot to insert it early one morning a few weeks ago and am pregnant. Before then it was working great...but you DO have to insert it...leaving it in the applicator on the nightstand does not work as well, LOL!
2007-03-12 09:50:02 · answer #4 · answered by TechWriter 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would definitely wait a year after you are married. You are starting your lives together and need to enjoy it for a little while. Getting married is a life changing event from the get go. Then adding a baby to the mix is a Major Life Changing event!! So see how the marriage works the 1st yr and then add to it. Pregnancy is a financial strain and things can be hard to adjust too. My husband and I have been together for 16 yrs this month and married for 10yrs and it took us 6 yrs to get pregnant.. it was stressful but in the long run it was the best thing.. we like to go places on a whim and it is alot harder to get up and go with a child. I am currently pregnant for my 2nd son (34wks) and it is really going to be hard to up and go now..lol. So have fun together and enjoy life!! Good luck and Congrats on the up and coming Marriage!!
2007-03-12 09:48:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitly wait till after the wedding, you really have no time now, because by the time you get pregnant , who knows how long that could take then you have to wait 9 to 10 months to have the baby, and then you need to give yourself about 6 months to a year to lose all your baby fat. Thats not always easy. And you need to enjoy your pregnacy not worrieing about gaining wieght. Good Luck
2007-03-12 09:48:59 · answer #6 · answered by Beautiful Disaster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, the pill can interfere with tryin to conceive up to 24 months after you stop taking it. But it really depends on the person, and how your body responds to the hormones in the pill. They obviously work if you havent gotten pregnant yet. But they could be powerful enough to stay in your system even months after you stop taking them. You might consider stopping them now (after talking with your doctor ofcourse) and using another form of birthcontrol until you are ready to conceive. And for the record, most ppl start showing around 3 months, so you might wait until may or June before you start trying to conceive. So you will still fit in your dress. And ofcourse, things could be the opposite of that. In the forst 3 months of my pregnancy I lost almost 40 lbs from morning sickness. So ultimately, it varies from person to person. I say talk with your doctor. Hope thishelps :) Good Luck! And Congrats on the wedding <3
2007-03-12 09:47:46 · answer #7 · answered by Hailey B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-18 05:18:19 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well to be honest you have been using the pill for a very long time you should have stopped a little earlier... but yes that's not the thing... well when you decide like stopping just use other protections get married and keep using protections for a couple more months... just to get to know your husband and to know how he is when you are married... cuz alot of things change when you get married.... and then after about six more months when you really know each other you should start having children....
2007-03-12 09:44:11 · answer #9 · answered by Wenke_91 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say try a few months after youve been married to where you know you'll have enough money, room for the baby,... You also want to have time for yourselves together to go on vacations, have fun before you settle down with a baby. Enjoy just being the two of you together for awhile and learn how to be married
2007-03-14 06:48:59 · answer #10 · answered by heidi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thsi is a personal choice, Id say wait until your married, so you dont have to worry about morning sickness on your wedding day. And so you wont be tired at the reception.
make sure your ready for a baby. Make sure you have health coverage, and can afford a baby, If your struggling to meet your monthly bills, it will be harder to add a baby at that time.
2007-03-12 09:45:18 · answer #11 · answered by tammer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋