I have three boys - two of whom understand and practice generosity and one who is and has seemingly always been somewhat of a curmudgeon. If we give to poor folks at Christmas he's mad that we spent out time and money giving to them. To his mind - what did they do to deserve generosity? We have tried many different approaches to strengthening the empathy and generosity - all to little avail. Any other parents been down this road? We keep expecting the selfish phase to pass but it has not. He is an outstanding student, athlete (for his age) and enjoyes a circle of friends. But he disdains the poor or needy.
2007-03-12
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