It doesnt make any sense to me, its like they are pigs, why cant they just be happy with who their with and just leave the hoochies behind? And they wonder why woman question what they are doing if they are going to be late? What is the matter with them? We woman are very simple creatures, we love pleasure, depending on some woman, we love money too, we love a hard working man to help support. And we love to have good time while the babies are at home with the sitter. Most times we love the attention. But other times were in a grumpy mood and dont wanna be bothered. And that includes that it has nothing to do with them. I know im missing a few things, but i dont wanna gab too much either. I just dont understand why men absolutely have to look at that when were right there? Are we not good enough, or? I know their men they are not dead, but honestly, as a female, it doesnt enthuse me to see a man like that. I just dont get it i guess?
2007-03-12 09:17:48 · 11 answers · asked by grumpyme2003 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
if you have a strong relationship,it shouldn't matter. i've been married many years, and my wife has 2 things to say abut my gawking:
1. look but don't touch
2. i'll never loose you to another man
i might add that in all my years as a married man, i have never been unfaithful, and i'm proud of that.
2007-03-12 09:24:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not all men are like that, so allow me to get up on my soap box.I bought an elaborate system so I can give my fiance foot massages / pedi cures ( the best I can ) I have a massage table I will lay her out on and give her a full body massage, after an uninterupted candle lit bubble bath, I am an excellent cook and I enjoy making dinner every night. We split the house work 50/50, I get up with our 4 month old baby every other night and frequently when my girl comes home from work I will go down on her just to watch her eyes roll back in her head and I would NEVER look at another woman in her pressence.
2007-03-12 16:34:26 · answer #2 · answered by frogenstien 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you're out walking in the mall, you're doing window shopping, and as a birthday or holiday approaches you're thinking in the back of your mind, "I hope he notices that I like this!" Giving him subtle hints of what you like and dislike.
Males windowshop too, and it can be a bit annoying to have them looking at other women while you're right there. But try to think of it as healthy interest in pretty objects. Look at what he likes, and try to provide him a bit of that yourself. Is it a low cut shirt? A push-up bra?
See it as a way to find out what catches his eye, not as an insult. Unless you blindfold him, his eyes will see what passes in front of them, no stopping it. You can make it an insult and something to fuss over, or you can take it in stride and turn it into something that you can leverage.
2007-03-12 16:23:30 · answer #3 · answered by Jarien 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Y? its the same reason y u look at a guy in a movie and say oh hes ****** hott...let it go. guys are doing it because they are guys u should be happy that they are still next to u and not walking away to go dry hump her. so y be angry. dont u do it? lol just with ur girl friends tho.
2007-03-12 16:23:05 · answer #4 · answered by lefthereburning 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It probably only happens when a guy is with you. You probably babble so much like you did here in your question that the guy gets distracted and finds himself wishing he was somewhere else with someone else.
2007-03-12 16:25:40 · answer #5 · answered by gunga_gungalunga 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u are right women are queens and should be treated like that. but some men r disrectful but not all I can bet the women they are looking at r insecure about something
2007-03-12 16:23:54 · answer #6 · answered by poochie6919 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My exhusband use to do this, and it use to make me laugh because it was all about him being insecure. And, trust me, the women he was eye balling thought he was the biggest jerk. He use to get mad at me because I never got jealous.
Well, I actually felt sorry for him because he was so insecure and constantly needed attention to prove to himself he was all that. Just remember that their behavior is more about them and less about you.
2007-03-12 16:23:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's correct, you just don't get it. Guys look at women, and that will never change. Women window shop at stores that they'll never get to shop at, it's no different.
2007-03-12 16:29:19 · answer #8 · answered by eviltruitt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They just haven't been taught any better. If you ever have sons, be sure to teach them not to do it!
2007-03-12 16:31:51 · answer #9 · answered by thankamy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I WISH I knew the answer to that one. But I agree with you completely. :(
2007-03-12 16:21:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋