im a virgin but do u bleed the first time u have sex?
or after or wat?
can someone PLEASE EXPLAIN 2 ME?
2007-03-12 09:05:05 · 19 answers · asked by PUERTORiCAN BAyBEE 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
if your hyman is still intact you will (this is a membrane that stretches over the vagina) - it can break during exercise though, so yours may or may not be still there. don't worry about it too much, shouldn't be much blood if it is still there x
2007-03-12 09:09:42 · answer #1 · answered by aria 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's a little flap of skin called the hymen covering your vaginal opening. It varies in size from woman to woman, and some are thicker than others. When you have sex, this skin tears or stretches. Sometimes it hurts, sometimes it doesn't. And yes, you can get a bit of blood (some people more than others). Usually it's some spotting. Sometimes, if the girl does a lot of sports, the hymen can be stretched out or torn already. And some women have really small, thin hymen that you can't even notice and they feel no pain the first time they have sex. And some women can have sex a few times before it stops hurting.
It's different for all women. If you use a mirror, you'll be able to find your own hymen.
2007-03-12 16:11:34 · answer #2 · answered by mikah_smiles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, with women, it can happen, but could be very minimal, more like pink fluid really, depends on the person and if it was brief or if it lasted longer, which basically comes down to how the friction affects the skin of the genitals really.
But my opinion is wait, and don't do it at all, there are so many people that regret how their first time went and usually it was because it was with someone or in a situation that wasn't worth it and can cause you emotional pain afterwards.
Also make sure you have protection, and consider one thing, if you aren't yet ready to go buy condoms or whatever, then you may want to consider you aren't yet ready to actually do it. And that is ok. Be sure to be yourself, no matter who says what, and it will work out, either way.
2007-03-12 16:15:57 · answer #3 · answered by dmh7593 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife did bleed the first time we had sex. It was like a light period for about 2 days.
2007-03-12 16:08:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you bleed during, because your Hymen is breaking, (a thin layer up in your vagina that is punctured when you have intercourse the first time--- which is the blood that comes during and after sex)
If you are talking about your period, that starts on its own when your 10-13. That will come every month on a cycle
2007-03-12 16:10:31 · answer #5 · answered by gsxr650 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most women/girls bleed the first time they/we have sex. This is due to the breakage of the hymen. Some girls, however, never develop a full hymen. They can still bleed, however, if the sex is too rough.
2007-03-12 18:50:50 · answer #6 · answered by filia_san 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it can be either during or after. its from the hymen, a thin piece of skin tearing or stretching to allow...sex to happen. sometimes you do not bleed at all. make sure your partner knows that your a virgin and goes slow. and if you tell him to stop he should. if he doesnt it could be considered rape.
2007-03-12 16:08:17 · answer #7 · answered by Emilyy<3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Almost all of my friends and myself did, maybe 3 or 4 times after too. But it just depends on whether your hymen has already broken, you may have broken it using a tampon or doing sport.
2007-03-12 16:26:54 · answer #8 · answered by tailz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When the hymen is broken for the first time, yes, there's bleeding. Wait until you're older to be intimate; there are too many diseases going around to chance it.
2007-03-12 16:08:24 · answer #9 · answered by TJTB 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
some woman bleeds for the first time af. having sex..some dont.
2007-03-12 16:08:31 · answer #10 · answered by Just_Me 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
most of the time u bleed but there r rare circumstances where u dont bleed
2007-03-12 16:08:10 · answer #11 · answered by fearsomeguy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋