that he wanted to have a threesome with you and your friend because it was his life long fantasy, but your friend had already told you that she secretly likes women and wants you "in that way",but she knows you won't cheat on your boyfriend/husband. What would you do? Ignore them both, or get down to some nasty,dirty, freaky stuff?
2007-03-12 08:26:06 · 51 answers · asked by Miss Lady 3 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
It depends on how you feel. If you are open to it, and they are open to it, then, why not? It's risky and can cause some problems, but if you are mature enough to make the decision and deal with the outcome, you could have some freaky fun.
Good luck and be safe in any said decision, and please only do so if you are certain it won't bite you back.
2007-03-12 08:29:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really all depends on your personal wishes. If you are dead set against it, don't! If your relationship wasn't begun on those terms there is no reason to feel like you owe him that now.
On the other hand, if you are interested in a threesome, my number is... (kidding). But seriously, you must have a total trust for him and you have to be confident in your place in his life in order for it to not to tear you apart.
The fact that you called it dirty and nasty pretty much sums up how you feel about it. Say no.
2007-03-12 08:37:08 · answer #2 · answered by kriskabob 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that would depend on if you wanted to keep your marriage. if you dont then yeah go ahead and get freaky, but be aware that threesomes and infidelity ruin 99% of marriages in the end. good luck, follow your heart.
2007-03-12 08:29:35 · answer #3 · answered by petmykitty22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all realize that this is just a fantasy of your mans. Everyone has fantasies and that is just what they are. You have them yourself. Second of all you need to talk to your man. You are supposed to be able to talk to your bf/husband about anything. Hell tell him about one of your fantasies. And regardless of what alot of other people said do not drop your friend for nothing.Friends are hard to come by. Your mans fantasy doesnt mean he will cheat on you. I am 100 percent positive your man is just fantasing about sharing you with another woman and not fanasizing about your friend. If you told your man about your friend being into you then he may have started considering your friend into the equation. Now if you are into it first start by talking to your man. Find out exactly what he is expecting out of this. And you both have to communicate about this not just him. You both have to be comfortable about it. I think you guys should just go for it and live and let live. This may be the only time you may have the chance. There may be reasons why he is considering it. One being yours and his sexual history. 2 being your friend may be decent looking. 3 being you may not have other friends who are decent looking.4 being your friend has already laid groundwork for the whole thing to go down. 5 being that what man in his right mind would not want to see his wife with another woman,share his wife with this woman together,and share this woman together with his wife. It is healthy to think about your fantasies and it is healthy to act on them but I think the most important thing is to communicate with your man.
2007-03-12 13:08:08 · answer #4 · answered by Slim 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is something you can only look into your own heart to answer. Ask yourself these questions. Is this something YOU want to do? Why would he ask you this if he really loves you?
If he truly loved you he would never ask in the first place.
Do you feel in your heart your mate will cheat on you to fulfill his fantasy if you don't. Are you willing to let him go if it came down to it? Can you still love and respect yourself after-wards if you decide to do it just to make him happy?
2007-03-12 09:44:52 · answer #5 · answered by Cyndip 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with a 3some! Experiment & enjoy! Lifes too short!
You will have the best of both worlds & your boyfriend will have his greatest fantasy fulfilled! Go For It!
2007-03-12 08:28:47 · answer #6 · answered by halloweenbride97 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say its tottaly up to you. If you feel comfortable in the situation then by all means go ahead. Your friend already knows that you wont dump your man for her. If you do go through with it you'll be satisfing 2 people and probaly yourself. Also it could be a fun/interesting experience!
2007-03-12 08:31:20 · answer #7 · answered by xpoisonousxinjectionx 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ignore them both. Not all fantasies should be fulfilled. I wouldn't want to do anything that could potentially cost me my husband AND my friend.
2007-03-12 08:29:03 · answer #8 · answered by mikah_smiles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be like hell no you are both sick!
I can handle that my friend is gay but her telling me she wants me that way and would take it if I didn't have a bf...creepy! And that my bf wants to have a threesome?! GROSS! I would ditch them both or at least tell them to never bring it up again and block it from my memory!
2007-03-12 08:29:06 · answer #9 · answered by smileforawile 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The old mad in me would want to get down with it,but the right thing to do would be ignore them and reconsider your choice of boyfriends
2007-03-12 08:29:17 · answer #10 · answered by Buck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋