Hi all,
I am 18 years old, I am not a virgin anymore since 2 months. I am facing a problem, before that when I was a virgin i used to please myself by myself and it was working but now I dont feel anything it's just that i wathch him reaching it and i cant get there, what is the problem? r we doing it wrong? is there something wrong with me? coz the spot where i used to rub is not the same place when he penetrates so i dont feel any orgasm, what to do with that?
2007-03-12 08:16:33 · 7 answers · asked by ali_lolo29 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
dont be afraid to tell him what you like and dont like. Tell him where you like being rubbed really fast or really slow... or up and down or side to side. be specific. try pleasing yourself as he is penetrating you... this will turn him on even more. Some guys are more concentrated on being in a hurry and satisying their needs and being done with it. Then there are men who really enjoy taking the time to please their girls and they want nothing more than to know what she likes but are too afraid to ask the girl... thinking she may think he dont know what hes doing or whatever. Trust me a guy will love a woman who knows what she wants... every girl is different and can be pleased in her own special way... only you know YOU and YOU know what you like and YOU know the majic spot... show him grab his hand and place it there show him... he will be intreaged!!
2007-03-12 09:30:06 · answer #1 · answered by misspookett 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will need more informaiton. Where is this "spot" that you speak of? Send me a photo and I'll diagnose the problem. Just find a position where you can get pleasure from rubbing that spot. Ask him to use a hand or do it yourself. Just keep trying until you find what feels good.
2007-03-12 08:21:34 · answer #2 · answered by Bill 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
Usually the lack of foreplay is the cause of this. Set up some candles and have him rubb you with ice cubes to stimulate you. You are probably just getting so used to the same sensation that your sensory systems pays no heed. Watch some pornography prior to sex or during with him.
Mimic their actions and see where it gets you. If you don't get there just carry around a vibrator. It is recommended that you consult a doctor, albeit quite embarrasing, if you still dont get there.
Good Luck.
2007-03-12 08:22:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know someone who had this problem....just talk to your partner let him know what you like and what you do not like....take your time do not be in a hurry...if he is going to fast tell him to slow down...be more passionate. speaking from my own experience, if I am about to climax and here my man about to sometimes that messes with my mind makes me think that I am not going to get it b4 he does and then I will not be able to get it at all....when you think like this you will not get yours...just relax enjoy the moment and of course your man and eventually it will happen for you I promise and when it does you will be the happiest person in the world.
2007-03-12 08:24:38 · answer #4 · answered by Jeannie H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well talk to him and its best if you both enjoy it as it will be monotonous for you soon.Have foreplay this will work like magic. Have sex games.
2007-03-12 09:25:44 · answer #5 · answered by Bacti 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say, to tell him that, and if he's sensitive to you(meaning he listens to you), then he'll change his postion and help you reach climax.
2007-03-12 08:20:22 · answer #6 · answered by Caiti 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you need to try it anal, that might do the trick for ya
2007-03-12 08:26:35 · answer #7 · answered by Dylan m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋