My fertility spec. said I have to start doing the shots now but my insurance will not cover it and I do not have the credit to finance it either. They pretty much told me there is nothing else they can do for me at this point. If I do ever have a baby it will be on my own naturally. I am so upset, I feel like all hope is gone, any words of advice?
2007-03-12 08:15:37 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
I am so sorry, I wish there was something I could do or say to make this difficult time in your life easier, but there isnt. I too, wish to have children. My advice is to pray, God has a plan for you, and we can only hope children are a part of it. Adoption is a possible option, but I can clearly see why you want to bear your own young. I hope things turn out for the better, I pray God blesses you with a child of your own. just keep trying the natural way. With Hope, your sister.
"For I know the plans I have for you," declares the LORD, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future." - Jeremiah 29:11
John 15:5 "I am the vine; you are the branches. If a man remains in me and I in him, he will bear much fruit; apart from me you can do nothing.
2007-03-12 08:25:13 · answer #1 · answered by metalstefl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to hear about this hun. My best advice would be to relax. Let nature take it's course. You may be surprised to find that you get pregnant when it is not on your time clock, but God's. Maybe it's not the time for you. Relax, enjoy your husband and be patient. There are good reasons why things happen at the time they do in our lives. It's not our schedule. It's his.
If you're still not satisfied, look into adoption. There are a lot of little kids in this world that need to be taken care of. Good luck!
2007-03-12 08:33:05 · answer #2 · answered by Barbara B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never surrender. Fight until hope is gone, and keep fighting. If it is meant to happen, it will... if you want it more than anything else in the world, then you can bring yourself to within reach of it, one way or another.
I tell you this because it is truth, and the dejection in your question is very downtrodden. Men have been inspired by words alone to raise from trenches and face the death of mortar and machine gun round for many, many years...
Surely a simple insurance problem will not keep you from your dreams? Come on... reach inside and figure it out.
I'm here if you need help. Message or IM me.
-JX
2007-03-12 08:19:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep your faith girl. I can't even imagine the pain and hurt that you feel. If you pray, keep praying, never stop. With God, nothing is impossible. Trust in him, he has a plan for your life. If you are meant to be a mommy, then when it's time for you to be a mommy, you will be. However, maybe you are supposed to be one of the angels that adopt a beautiful child in this world. God bless you and i pray that everything works out. Where there's a will, there's a way. I wish you the best.
2007-03-12 08:23:58 · answer #4 · answered by ♫Mama of One♫ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. you asked for advice remember so i am giving it.
you said you want a baby. a baby is just that a baby. a child that you raise up and that regardless anymore if it is with you and your husband,boyfriend, partner, yourself, grandparents etc...etc....it is a special gift to those that raise and to the world.
here is the thing...that baby does not have to come from your womb to be a special part of your life, family and existance and to bring the joy you so desire.
when i gave my baby up 7 years ago in April to the woman who so longed to have one of her own...and was unable to for so many years....well it was the "gift" of a lifetime for her...to this day she writes me letters of joy telling me that she wants me to know how wonderful she is to be a mother and that her son is the the greatest person in the world to her. He is her son not mine! That is her baby and her husband's. All i did was give birth to him. She was right there the entire time for the birth and even while i was pregnant.
There is open and closed adoption options for you. Please consider adoption as an option. There is always hope if you truly want a baby in your life. A child is a child and a family is a family it doesn't have to come from your womb for the "greatness" and all of what i said earlier to be true.
If you decide against adoption...then consider this. You mentioned that the shots are pricey....do you realize how pricey it is to have and maintain a child? What is it worth to you? And even with the shots it will not guarantee anything. The one who adopted from me she went through EVERYTHING and spent thousands of dollars to get pregnant with no results. Ultimately she adopted..even that cost money. If you really want a baby you will do anything to accomplish this. Just don't kidnap. ; )
2007-03-12 08:32:01 · answer #5 · answered by LM 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-24 22:47:18 · answer #6 · answered by jech 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My brother and his wife were in pretty much the same situation as you. They just decided to have a "if it happens, it happens" attitude and leave it up to God. It took them 3 years trying for both of their children, but they now have a beautiful 4 year old girl and 1 year old boy! Doctors don't always know everything, honey. Never give up hope.
2007-03-12 08:20:19 · answer #7 · answered by Lotus 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to hear that. You could always consider a surrogate or adoption. While both are expensive and of course you'd have to come up with the money there are always options for having a baby. Talk to your doctor to see if there are any more options that might be available to you.
2007-03-12 08:27:10 · answer #8 · answered by redneckism2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My life partner and I are adopting through the county. I dont know what state your in (we're in California) but contact your local foster parents program. Let them know your interested in adoption not foster care and they will tell you the steps you need to take. In cali the only thing you pay for are parenting classes! I know how it is to want a baby so bad that it breaks your heart but there are so many children out there who need a mommy like you. hang in there and make that call!
2007-03-12 08:21:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
God will Bless you just pray!
It may seem like your worries
Are more than you can bear.
Slow down and take a breather-
God knows how stressful life is;
He wants to ease our cares,
And He'll respond to all your needs
ALWAYS SAY A PRAYER.
2007-03-12 08:23:15 · answer #10 · answered by 2hot4u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋