There seems to be no way to avoid a fight - about anything and everything. Oh, by the way, retreat is ALSO not an option.
2007-03-12 07:45:06 · 19 answers · asked by jimj1s 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
give her anything and everything she wants...dont speek unless spoken to...have chocolate waiting
2007-03-12 07:49:07 · answer #1 · answered by CRAZY 8 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
merely roll with it. If I react as though she quite meant what she stated, all hell might injury loose then I could desire to make an apology. If i will pay interest to the calendar and respond accurately the intercourse isn't something in need of great in a pair of days. Why get all worked up over some thing she would not recommend - do no longer I submit with the comparable sort of crap on occasion at artwork? And there ain't no good intercourse and few days later at artwork. i will enable you recognize a secret - yet you may no longer tell my spouse - ok? do you recognize why it rather is noted as PMS? it rather is because of the fact mad cow decease replaced into already taken. lol do no longer you dare tell my spouse I stated that. :)))
2016-10-02 00:15:58 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find other things to occupy your time and limit interaction with her. If that doesn't work tell her to take some Midol and get over it. I am not unsympathetic to the woes of PMS but some of the women have to realize what they do to us every month. It takes it's toll and makes us want to walk away for a week and come back when it's all over. What if guys acted like this once a month every month? It would never be tolerated by the female community. Plus offering up a hot bubble bath and massage along with the chocolate never hurt. If she is insistent on arguing though, walk away, just walk away!
2007-03-12 07:55:46 · answer #3 · answered by shaman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful she is not using PMS as an opportunity to treat you bad. My wife was doing this to an extent. When we had a big fight she would always pull out the PMS card, that I don't understand what she is going through and I should just understand and take it. I finally had enough of this and we had it out. She doesn't give me that excuse any more and now I can't even hardly tell she is on now. So for me I think she used it as an excuse to get mad and a reason for me not to retaliate.
2007-03-12 09:07:49 · answer #4 · answered by mac_attack_51 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Duck and Cover! Just kidding. Actually you have to just tried to avoid getting into situations where a fight could develop and the best advice is to learn to important words "Yes Dear". You may be in the right when you argue, but you will never convince her of it if she is having PMS, you are better off not arguing and wait until she is in a better mood to discuss it, or just drop it altogether.
2007-03-12 07:52:55 · answer #5 · answered by Kevin J 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I feel for ya, my husband has to put up with mine too, it's taken him a few years to realize that when I get bitchy, frustrated, cry , or seem uninterested, that it's not a personal attack on him. That was how he used to think, and always fought back with me.
Just ask her when you notice it happening, if you can do anything to help her out, like run a hot bath, a cup of tea/coffee, rub her feet, tell her you love her and want to be there for her. Also by staying low, that helps, just don't do it in a manner that will make her feel bad.
2007-03-16 07:52:21 · answer #6 · answered by Jenna P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the Premsyn response. I keep some in my desk at work or I would get fired!
Another PMS prescription strength (added bonus of birth control) is Yasmin.
Finally, DEFINITELY give her spontaneous lower back rubs. When we get our period, it changes our center of gravity and women's lower backs start to KILL us....a backrub feels GREAT.
Finally, if you cook or do the food shopping, have less salt in the house - that makes it worse. Regular exercise (you'll probably have more success if you encourage the exercise BEFORE her pms starts) - makes it better.
2007-03-12 07:53:52 · answer #7 · answered by once upon a time 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe try complete silence! At least for the few days she's on PMS....that's horrible, but if you fight about everything, then I don't know what else to tell ya. Have you tried talking to her? Maybe she can try to calm herself during those times using music, or meditation or something. Goodluck!
2007-03-12 07:50:23 · answer #8 · answered by M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
PMS is no joke it's really hard to deal when your hormones are all out of whack. Show her you empathize with her. Don't pick that time to debate a matter that can wait a few days. Be Patience and keep a low profile.
Believe it or not we even hate ourselves when we're like that.
2007-03-12 07:58:27 · answer #9 · answered by cream city chick 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If it is really abnormal and she seems like a completely different woman, she may have PMDD. Pre Menstrual Dysmorphic Disorder. It is treated with Anti-depressants.
Start talking to her about how different she is during her cycle. Start a journal, write down her behaviors and things she has said that is out of character. She may need to see it in black and white before she can recognize her problem.
2007-03-12 07:54:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Crush up some Premysen PMS and put it in a drink. It is the best stuff in the world for PMS. My husband would probably divorce or kill me if I didn't take that stuff!
Or, you could just ask her if she would mind taking it?
2007-03-12 07:49:33 · answer #11 · answered by bina64davis 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋