i split up with my boyfriend over two weeks ago.I'm now taking it slow with my best guy mate,who is amazing,and has been there for me through everything.The night we split,he slept in bed with a girl who fancies him,and got steaming drunk with her,although he swears nothing happened.Anyway,because she's obsessed with him,she's started coming to parties and things in our town with him,when she lives over an hour away.I'm really trying to move on,but it's hard when i have her and him breathing down my neck all the time,especially because she keeps having 'subtle' digs at me.My ex told my friend he hates this girl,and really misses me although he hangs with her all the time,along with others.Me and my ex agreed to be friends,but he's acting quite cuddly,and i also feel annoyed because of this thing with the girl too when im talking to him.What do you think?
2007-03-12 07:42:26 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I'm sorry but when you break up, you're free to go out with whoever you want. And maybe the split affected him more than you think and he only is with this girl because he wants to fill the space you left. If you are really bugged about this, then just don't hang with him when she's around.
I hope this helps!!! =)
2007-03-12 07:59:00 · answer #1 · answered by ..... 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your ex boyfriend is unstable in this situation. He should be the one who has to take care of the whole scenario. He got carried away and now when he know he still loves you he can straight away come to you and talk about it and work on the relationship. But this is very strange that he is not leaving her and he needs you. Now what you can do is to talk about it openly and say him what you want and if agrees that's fine and if not there is lot more treasured for you.
2007-03-12 14:51:37 · answer #2 · answered by neeraja_boda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you can do is kill them with kindness. Obviously he doesn't love you or he wouldn't not have slept with that other chick that night. But like i was saying, the best way to get at them is either 1. to act like you don't care or 2. talk to him about it and tell him how you feel, maybe he will understand...
!!! but i personally wouldn't even want to have him as a friend if he would have disrespected me like that !!!
2007-03-12 14:54:12 · answer #3 · answered by sexy_golfer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from them as much as you can.
2007-03-12 14:46:43 · answer #4 · answered by Maudie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋