Cowardly-ness?

Question

Ok, i was going to join the gym today when i saw a couple of my freinds. And then i chickened out of going and went home. I don't know why, i like them they like me.

However i would be totally fine going to a gym with full of strangers. Why is this and why am i a coward?

Answer 1

You are not a coward haha. Sometimes I will have the same problem like sometimes if I go out I don't want to run into anyone I know. I don't know why. I am guessing your problem is an attention thing like you don't want to draw attention and your kinda shy. If you went in there and said hi I am sure everything would be fine. Things are not near as bad as what we are expecting. Just go in there and do your thing no one thinks your wierd and they like you they won't judge you.
Good Luck!!

Answer 2

Hmm, this is an interesting question. Personally I belong to a gym that is kind of far out because I don't want people that I know to be there. But this is simply because I do not want to be bothered by them. I can't stand people I know coming up to me and asking a bunch of questions, and so on, and getting in the way of a good work out. This probably doesn't really relate to what you describe, but maybe you just feel uncomfortable about working out in front of friends. You and I do the same thing, but for different reasons it seems.

Answer 3

I personnally believe that a good workout is a private matter, and I don't want any distractions.
If I see friends when I walk into Bally's, I will say hi, then go to the next Bally's down the road...

Answer 4

Much like plucking my eyebrows, excercise is something I like to do in private. it's not cowardly, it's just a prefrence.

Answer 5

well maybe u prefer to work out infront of pplz that dont judge u......cuz hate it or luv if friendz judje