Here's my point... I am in love with someone, who loves me, but isn't in love with me. They are in love with someone else, who loves them but isn't in love with them, who is in love with someone else... and it continues on. Is it possible to find someone who loves you and who you love, or is it just a huge endless chain of people who are loved by someone that they are not in love with and are in love with someone who is in love with someone else. Help!!
2007-03-12 07:06:45 · 16 answers · asked by jjspike 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Ok, I know the question is a little confusing, sorry:)
2007-03-12 07:16:57 · update #1
Yes, it is possible. I know what you mean about the difference between love and in love. Sometimes it's just a matter of leaving the circle of hopelessnes you're in and find a new circle of friends. Or, you and the one you love could talk about it and try to make a go of it. In real life, Love seems to last, while In Love is fleeting.
2007-03-12 07:12:00 · answer #1 · answered by ron s 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Of course its possible. *points to countless successful marriages*. It may seem hard when your in a weird kind of chain but move on, find someone that loves you. Once you have love live every day like youve just fell in love with them and it will never fade.
2007-03-12 07:11:06 · answer #2 · answered by mystraven85 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Oh yes it is definitely possible to find someone who you love and who loves ONLY you in return. Im in a 2 yr relationship with someone who i knew would love me like no one has before & i love her just as deep.
2007-03-12 07:10:02 · answer #3 · answered by Raynebow_Diva 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you have love and infatuation mixed up. You are also talking about multiple definitions of love here. Ron S brings up a good point about love and being in love....
2007-03-12 07:16:27 · answer #4 · answered by Brent W 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe its possible to be with someone who thinks they love you but know they really love someone else who in turn arent capable of loving someone who thinks they are in love with the one who really does love the one who only thought they were in love. Does that clear it up for you.?
2007-03-12 07:14:47 · answer #5 · answered by molly 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes but rare. You usually love someone more than someone to love you back. This is reality.
2007-03-12 07:21:42 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you can find someone who loves you and who you love.
2007-03-12 07:09:53 · answer #7 · answered by axelflame8 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is possible. I am IN LOVE with some who is IN LOVE with me. So, you need to break away from that particular circle of hell and find yourself a new partner. One whom you are in love with, and who is in love with you.
2007-03-12 07:14:53 · answer #8 · answered by The One and Only 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
how can you be with someone who doesn't love you and loves someone else? What a sad feeling!
2007-03-12 07:09:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
its possible to do that you can start with me because i am obsessed with love and if we were to you know date then i'd always love you ok? i want to be with someone right now ok? i'm hoping that ita you so if you read this message then get at me
2007-03-12 07:16:42 · answer #10 · answered by melikey2009 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋