my best m8 and her boyfriend av just split up but there's anova lad in the picture and i reckon hes just goin 2 mess her about but i wana b there 4 her but im scared if i say nefin she mite take it the rong way nd it'l mess up are friendship!!
2007-03-12 06:49:12 · 14 answers · asked by jadie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Just be there.
2007-03-12 06:51:56 · answer #1 · answered by julie d 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you are talking to her as a friend. say you are concerned about her getting involved with someone else so soon, you are worried she will get hurt. You dont have to mention this new lad and what you think of him. just say lets just have fun without any guys in our life for a while.
2007-03-12 06:57:35 · answer #2 · answered by Ding Dong 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think about it your friend has just come out of a relationship and could be very vulnerable and on the rebound and get hurt easily.I am sure your friend would be grateful and appreciate your concern over this new relationship but just explain to her that your worried she`ll get hurt and i am sure she would not take it the wrong way..........good luck.
2007-03-12 06:58:25 · answer #3 · answered by sarah y 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let her make her own mistakes. If you warn her away from the guy then she might go against you and go for him anyway and then you've lost her, whereas if you just stay supportive and then this guy hurts her, then she'll come to you for support and she will know that she madea bad choice in going for him. good luck x
2007-03-12 06:56:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let her do what she wants then you won't be to blame if anything goes wrong. She has a mind of her own. As long as you are there when whatever happens that's all that matters. If someone wants to do something they will do it regardless.
2007-03-12 07:36:57 · answer #5 · answered by Biff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is support her, in her choices and let her make her own mistakes because it will get in the way of your friendship if you intervened in her choices
2007-03-12 06:58:36 · answer #6 · answered by sexysue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's never a good idea to get on to a rebound relationship so you could say that and leave her to it... what else can you do - you will at least be there for her what ever happens.
2007-03-12 07:00:28 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need to say anything, just be there for her.
And don't say 'I told you so' if it all goes wrong, just be a shoulder to cry on.
We all have to learn from our own mistakes.
2007-03-12 06:53:39 · answer #8 · answered by Dogsbody 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anova..your english arent you!!!you will probly end up shagging him too so dont worry
2007-03-12 06:57:59 · answer #9 · answered by comsopaul 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
JUST BE THERE WITH YOUR SHOULDER TO CRY ON...IF YOUR RIGHT ABOUT THIS NEW BOY SHE WILL NEED ONE...GOOD LUCK
2007-03-12 06:52:24 · answer #10 · answered by michael b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋