We had sex for the first time in late february, she said she has felt odd since.
I used a condom and didnt come during the sex due to nerves. I also checked the condom afterwards for leakages and there wasnt any.
She said he has been having a bad stomach and checked recently on pregnancy sites and said she is getting worried cause she has some of the symptoms.
I love her alot but im really scared. Do you think she may be pregnant ?
2007-03-12 06:44:34 · 25 answers · asked by good guy 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Doubtful......she is scaring herself into having the symptoms of pregnancy. If she stops stressing, then the symptoms will stop.
2007-03-12 06:47:20 · answer #1 · answered by Aaliyah & Natalie's Mommy 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You can still get pregnant even when you use a condom (my sister in law did) but it's unlikely. Stressing about being pregnant can make you have the symptoms a lot of times. If her period is late then she should take a pregnancy test, but more than likely she isn't pregnant.
Oh and to the answer above, there is still a small amount of sperm in precum which is released whether you ejaculate or not so that doesn't always mean that's it's pregnancy proof, although once again, it's unlikely.
2007-03-12 13:53:28 · answer #2 · answered by redneckism2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's totally not possible- Don't even take one of the posters advice on buying a test-- it would 1 be WAY TOO SOON and 2 if you didn't finish, theirs no possible way a baby was made. Also, maybe you guys should google intercourse and making a baby so you guys both have a littl ebit more information, it sounds like you both need to talk to someone. Also, visit your local planned parenthood and get her some birth control, if she thinks she may be pregnant without having you ejaculate and this soon, then she may be wishing for something. Help you and yourself , get down to your local clinic and get some birth control. I wouldn't suggest an oral contraceptive because you really never know if it's being taken or not, I would suggest something like a shot or IUD, you can google them to find out what they are. You guys sound young so help yourselves to the nearest clinic, get some info and some birth control.
2007-03-12 13:55:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is possible that your girlfriend could be pregnant. One early symptom are sore breasts. Also, did she miss her period? Over the counter pregnancy tests are good enough to detect pregnancy within two weeks of conception. Alternatively, she could go see a doctor who will also help you with decisions. Either way, it is to your benefit to determine her status asap, since you will then be able to consider your possible choices earlier. You can also make plans to prevent a similar situation in the future with the pill, spermacidal condoms, and emergency contraception. Good luck. Everything will be okay.
2007-03-12 13:52:39 · answer #4 · answered by dochoolio 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude, No. And before you start freaking out, you need to realize that you have to make the pre-sex contract, even if you love her. If she expects you to be responsible for the birth control, theres a good chance you're going to knock her up by accident. Condoms are just not reliable. You need to get her on some more reliable birth control, and stop putting it to her, until she does. It may seem jerky to her, but, If she's all horny for you maybe she means to get pregnant. It's your life too. If you can't get her to respect you enough to take the pill, then imagine trying to get her to rationalize with you around parenting.
Good luck , bro.
2007-03-12 13:52:23 · answer #5 · answered by kikumatsu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the store and buy the test. It is the only way to know for sure.
Every woman, from time to time, will experience some of the symptoms for pregnancy (even feeling nauseous in the morning). More than likely, your girlfriend is noticing the symptoms more because she is worried about being pregnant. The ONLY way you both will know for sure is to take a pregnancy test. It will be absolute (they are VERY accurate).
Good luck!
2007-03-12 13:50:56 · answer #6 · answered by volleyballchick (cowards block) 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you didn't ejaculate and wore a condom that was checked afterward for leakage, I don't think she is. I think she's just paranoid and maybe you should hold off on having sex if you two aren't mature enough to accept that it can happen.
2007-03-12 13:48:21 · answer #7 · answered by tylw85 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Late feb, like the last week? If thats when then its WAY too soon for her to be feeling anything. She's probably just making herself think shes pregnant becuase it was her first time having sex with you and she got nervous. If she misses a period, then test.
2007-03-12 13:48:29 · answer #8 · answered by LP's Mommy, RN 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, you used a condom that didn't break and you didn't even ejaculate. Pretty much damn near impossible. You should really read up on this before you guys continue to have sex so she is not freaking you out every month.
2007-03-12 13:49:46 · answer #9 · answered by dragonfly7887 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She shouldn't be pregnant, but to help you guys to relax and find out for sure she should take a pregnancy test. Since you used a condom and didn't ummm...finish...you guys are fine, but do the test thing so she'll feel better.
2007-03-12 13:51:15 · answer #10 · answered by jaliscience_chicana 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Anything is possible..however, based on what you said, I'd guess probably not. Depending on her age, and level of experience, her symptoms may be psychosomatic. Just continue to support her and if her period is late, have her take the test.
2007-03-12 13:48:07 · answer #11 · answered by pisceanwillow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋