2007-03-12 06:19:41 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Usually people tend to stay away and avoid the person when they are hurt. But on the other hand there's also people that are so attached they wanna continue being friends. The question is who ended it? The guy or the girl? If I break up with someone still loving him I don't think I could be his friend until I learn how to see him with different eyes....
2007-03-12 06:25:57 · answer #1 · answered by shygal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of the time she just wants to be nice and sees you as someone who is better off being a platonic friend than a lover.But on the other hand she may still be hoping you can patch things up.Either one can be right because a woman can very well mean it when she says lets be friends even after the break up with no strings attached.
Many say this because they rather have their ex as an friend than an enemy, which I think is a wise move . It is good for both of you. But some ex you just have to keep them far.
If I were you I would see this as a complement .
2007-03-12 06:41:48 · answer #2 · answered by Analyst 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many times, it does NOT mean that she wants to remain friends. Saying that she does is a mild way of slipping out of the relationship. It is a way of saving face, or breaking the news that she no longer desires a relationship, but doing it in a way that is gentler to do.
2007-03-12 06:25:16 · answer #3 · answered by Kerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means she doesn't want to let go of the relationship, isn't ready to move on. It usually doesn't help either partner to get over it, if you try to stay in close touch right after breaking up. Too complicated.
2007-03-12 06:24:09 · answer #4 · answered by surlygurl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
(assuming she called for the break up) it COULD just be that she genuinly feelz what you had together - MiNUS the sex - contains the ingredients of a friendship worthy of preservation ....however, she could be spinning you a line to help soften the blow. MY advice is to be cool about it and get on with your life - time will tell which option is truly applicable
2007-03-12 06:31:46 · answer #5 · answered by rapunzel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not a true break up. She still wants contact with you. She will tell you what she does not want, but will not be able to tell you what she does want. Yeah, go figure.
2007-03-12 06:42:46 · answer #6 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That means she wants to keep you as a reserve for a booty call. They will lie and say it's not so, but it is true.
2007-03-12 06:25:07 · answer #7 · answered by Maria A. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means she doesn't want to be your friend.
2007-03-12 06:26:07 · answer #8 · answered by in2one 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she clingy and still wants to be in your life. and if you do ramian friends she will make your life miserable if you find another girlfriend
2007-03-12 06:25:17 · answer #9 · answered by raven1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she wants to sleep with someone else while keeping you on the backburner...
2007-03-12 06:26:36 · answer #10 · answered by al e. c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋