Recently my husband got a little upset because of the relationship questions that i answer. I told him that i am giving advice to those who have gone through what i have gone through. He disagreed and said that the answers that i give are stupid and unlogical. Can someone tell me what should I do?
2007-03-12 06:18:55 · 18 answers · asked by Sweetheart 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Why does it bother him? Maybe he feels that what you say and what you do are two different things, because a lot of things are easier said than done.
2007-03-12 06:23:49 · answer #1 · answered by Tangled Web 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's telling you that ANYTHING you do is "stupid" or unlogical, he's being pretty disrespectful. There may be some other reason he doesn't like you answering. Men tend to be more secretive about their relationships, they don't like to talk about problems or the past. Women use those things to try to heal, and love to talk about them and counsel others with their experiences. He needs to understand that you're not blabbing all about your relationship to strangers, you're simply answering questions. The people you're answering don't even know who he is! :) But seriously, don't let him tell you that something you're doing is stupid.
2007-03-12 13:54:57 · answer #2 · answered by heatre24 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him if he really thinks that not to read your answers! Everyone is entitled to their own opinion. lol and Ask him well you answer this question then If I am so "stupid" and "unlogical" then why in the hell did you marry me?
2007-03-12 13:26:32 · answer #3 · answered by ~Jennifer~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps he did not like seeing any reflection of his past relationship issues online. His response sounds quite insecure to me. Maybe he needs some reassurance that when you share personal experience, it is done anonymously.
Try to ignore his criticisms and keep on offering your advice . You may really help someone and never even know it.
2007-03-12 13:33:21 · answer #4 · answered by not yet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have the right to your opinions whether he likes it or not, maybe your answer will help somebody solve a problem they are having in their life.
2007-03-16 12:40:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop participating in Yahoo Answers, your marriage is more important that us, we are your *imaginary* friends, not part of your real household,
2007-03-12 13:25:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only logical answer here is to divorce his stupid hiney!
2007-03-12 13:24:50 · answer #7 · answered by Jewells 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about Agree to Disagree, and you can both live with that.
2007-03-12 15:43:09 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop telling him you answer the questions.
2007-03-12 13:31:42 · answer #9 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop giving advice to him.
2007-03-12 13:59:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋