i never have neither has he cheating isnt love you tell someone you love them and then cheat that isnt love at all if you truly love someone you wont cheat
2007-03-12 06:21:26
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answered by Anonymous
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Wife did, for almost 5 weeks she broke it off , but a yaer later we went to a party and I saw them to gather and you know that feeling that it happened?
Well I confunted her she confessed everything and ask me to forgive her I told her If she was truly sorry she would have confessed the whole thing after the first time!
I moved her to an apartment and told her were done, started to divorce proceeding's and legally separated form her.
Then I got some, and some more ,and even more, 46 women to be exact. after I was burned out,And ashamed of my actions wife wanted to try to reconciled . We wne to counseling, and stop divorce proceeding's and drew up a speration agreement that would allow either of us to sign a divorce decree and walk away!
Marriage is hard work ,and if any say different there lying to you. Just to let you know we been together 16 years this past January, we adopted 4 great boys from one side of family or the other, were in final stages to adopt our little girl who happens to be wifes little half sister who's 5, and are taking care of 3 other children and looks like there here for good as well. It's hard work and wife and I struggle with everyday things but hell I we would not have it any other way!
We got over the affair it took years ,but it's not the trust issue that can help you, it the can I have FAITH in this person again.
Good Luck
2007-03-12 13:31:17
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answered by Free-Lance 5
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My husband was the one that cheated 3 months ago,after 22 long years that I given to him lost just like that. Why?? since day one,. he never noticed me as I am,a girl standing in front of this boy,asking him to love her. He can only see me as his wife,then the mother of his children. He was not there for me,when I needed him, and finally last year I asked him why he never give me his affection and passion,he said he did then joined the Christan dating site to look for a friend to help him realize what he didn't do with me,stupid but true.He lied to his profile of being married and met this woman who also married and from there, they end up committing adultery and at the same time he fell of this married woman as well.
Now my 3 teenagers life was ruined, I don't care about mine, and I don't feel anything anymore, lost my trust, respect, and yes my love for him. So the result of this is he wants to work on our relationship, which he destroyed, he wants me to believe that he doesn't care of this woman anymore even though that it didn't took him long enough,to have feelings for her, only 2 months of knowing her................I didn't loose anything but he does..........
2007-03-12 14:05:14
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answered by islandgirl06 5
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yes...broken trust is almost irrepairable..but through time and constant reassurance we've healed (but she and I will never forget the pain such an indiscretion caused)...if you're thinking about going down that road..just know that the allure of heart-pounding fatuation fades in time and you are jeopardizing the stability of a (presumably) stable relationship!
2007-03-12 13:21:08
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answered by Anonymous
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I was married for 36 years to my late husband who was also my first boyfriend and never even thought of cheating.
2007-03-12 13:19:26
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answered by Hamish 7
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to me when you seperate and live in different households its' not cheating. my ex dated 5 women and i dated 7 men. but i was the "whore". and he is the victim! lol so he and i can go back and forth on who was the cheater. the fact is, both of us cheated on our family, our vows, our dreams and our values. and the consequences were painful. dont do it! it's not worth the pain and misery of a broken heart, constant regret and children who can't be raised by both parents in their homes.
2007-03-12 13:18:36
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answered by Anonymous
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Nope. Cheaters are nothing more than cowards who don't have the guts to get out of a relationship before they decide to get their jollies somewhere else.
2007-03-12 13:18:16
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answered by begeeman13 6
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I cheated and still together but working on issues
2007-03-12 13:40:49
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answered by anonymous 2
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my now ex cheated, i caught him with a gril on top of hime, why he did it im still asking myself that! the end result he got a cell phone thrown at him and the girl got socked in the face. now i will never talk to him again!
2007-03-12 13:17:38
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answered by CRAZY 8 3
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Both of us have. I forgave and we moved on. My spouse threatened me with exposing secrets about me to all my family and friends. I was basically given the choice of stay and be miserable or leave and be miserable. I stayed and we moved on.
2007-03-12 13:24:49
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answered by J J 5
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