Been with this girl for bout 2 years, really lov her. We hav breakups and reunited many times. I tolerated her & sacrificed alot for her. Last year, she cheated me with another guy. I was so hurt I decided to end it. But after tons of excuses from her , we‘re reunited again. I couldn’t do it coz it was hard for me to see her cry, it was hard for me to forget the ‘memories’ & I don’t want to hurt her. I’d encouraged her to change her bad attitude. But it never works. I lost my trust. She always show her selfishness, everything was bout ‘her’. But there are times she makes me happy. So I accepted the way she is.
PROBLEM: She’s goin oversea for bout 2 years. I think I cant handle distance relationship. Coz we’re not even stable when we’re together. She’s the straying type, needs excitement & can’t stay idle for long. I don’t know how long I can take if she’s away. But if I had to end it, it’ll be hard for me coz I lov her & I dun wan to hurt her.
What shud I do?
2007-03-12 06:05:33 · 7 answers · asked by arthur 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
just see what happens. if you want to try the long distance thing for awhile try it, if it doesnt work out then it doesnt work out , at least you tried.
2007-03-12 06:13:48 · answer #1 · answered by CATWOMAN 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're way too worried about hurting her, when it sounds like she hurts you all the time without giving it a second thought. Get rid of her. It will be hard because she'll probably try to persuade you back and make you think she's sad. But you're just the guy she goes back to when she has no one else... and not having you to fall back on is sad to her. You deserve better than that. Get a girl who will care about you as much as you care about her.
2007-03-12 13:10:17 · answer #2 · answered by heatre24 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with her! She does not give a rats A$$ about you and is using you. Stop being pathetic and move on. Love is shared by TWO people not one sided. You will get over it!
2007-03-12 13:10:28 · answer #3 · answered by lucyloulady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with her! If she cant be faithful to you when you are together she sure cant be faithful when ur across the ocean. And why are you worried about hurting her? Was she worried about you when she was laying down with another man?
2007-03-12 13:16:32 · answer #4 · answered by ~Jennifer~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hurt Her...???? what about she hurting you? or either you like to be a CORNUTO that's Italian, and thats' what we called the guy when his girlfriend is unfaithful...I see that you like this type of relationship...you should go to the psychiatrist.
2007-03-12 13:19:20 · answer #5 · answered by Jersey girl on Florida. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you put her on the plane to leave give her a kiss and tell her good bye and don't write or call
2007-03-12 13:15:34 · answer #6 · answered by Eyes of Green 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
End it now and for good!! She is only trouble for you.
2007-03-12 13:08:53 · answer #7 · answered by Jewells 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋