when they say stop before u ejaculate to prolong sex and pull it out and start again do that really work? won't u c u m anyway - i thought guys can't control that anyway - so how is this method working? also - u can't hold it in when u gonna c u m right or wrong?
2007-03-12 05:51:22 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
True, u can't hold it in when u gonna c u m, there is a 'point of no return'. When he crosses it there is no holding back, that's when he goes all goofy and lets it out.. He should know when that point is getting close, that is the time to pull back. He can practice when he masturbates and you can help him cause you are getting benefit from this too. It works if he has the mental power to stick with it until he has it mastered.
2007-03-12 11:47:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men who have the experience know how and when to control orgasms. I know how to control mine. It took a little time, but recognizing the "feeling" and knowing when to react helped me to learn. Keep in mind too that all men are different and some have to do other things to control it, i.e., pulling out just before, squeezing the tip of the penis, tightening up the PC muscle, etc.
The number one thing is to be selfless instead of selfish. A selfish man doesn't care how satisfied you are just as long as he is satisfied. That's the wrong philosophy. He will not posses the ability of control because he wont care. Just a squirrel trying to get a nut :-/ Settle down with a selfish man and you will not be disappointed.
Anyway, YES, men can prolong sex and control their orgasms. And YES there is a "point of no return", however, the key is the learn how and when to react to it.
Good question.
2007-03-12 13:32:48 · answer #2 · answered by Goober W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stopping and starting works, if you don't wait to long. There is a point of no return when orgasm is inevitable. It takes practice and you need to pay attention to the warning signs. I'm assuming you want your man to last longer. You should be able to tell when he's getting close. Shift your position to disrupt his rhythm. Tell him to think about dead puppies or picture his grandmother naked or something, anything to distract him from an orgasm. If he pulls out grab the base of his penis and squeeze on the underside to block the sperm duct. Hold it for a minute. Have him take a few deep breaths and start again. Make him wear a condom. That will also make him last longer.
2007-03-12 15:48:35 · answer #3 · answered by bugs280 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it does work and if you can gain control of how you feel before and know when to change or stop you can prolong the sex play for hours. there is a "break point" that once crossed, you cannot stop it from cumming out
2007-03-12 15:44:02 · answer #4 · answered by billnrhonda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read Masters and Johnson for the technique. Cannot describe here as it is graphic but the book explains how they cured the problem of being too fast, too soon.
2007-03-12 13:08:58 · answer #5 · answered by bigjohn B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to listen to yuor body to know the signs.
There is a book out there "The Multi-Orgasmic man" that might give you some assistance in this matter
2007-03-12 13:07:03 · answer #6 · answered by Experto Credo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man that system doesn't work, not really good anyway, cause you have to keep stopping and that stops the actual action, the good stuff. On this website www.mistermanpower.com, they have a method in this guide that I use, and it has worked miracles.
2007-03-12 13:40:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes we can hold it back ..
it's all mind over mater
if your partner won't ...get a new one
2007-03-12 13:02:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋