and so enthusiastic, and appreciative, and generous? What are all these married women not doing?
2007-03-12 05:47:43 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'm doing nothing wrong - he made the commitment to his wife, I didn't!
2007-03-12 06:00:32 · update #1
Ladies, I PROMISE YOU, some man you know well, highly respect, and you see to be in a wonderful marriage, is cheating or has cheated on his wife. Most don't get caught unless they want to. Wake up and face reality.
2007-03-12 06:02:22 · update #2
I get all the wonderful single men I like, thank you. Just not so eager to get married when I see what married men are like - especially the happily married men.
2007-03-12 06:24:45 · update #3
HEHE... thanks for letting me know! =)
SMILE!!!!
2007-03-12 06:18:46 · answer #1 · answered by L!LO 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why are you letting men use and abuse you by using you as a sex object?? Is this what you are saying? There is a lady out they love and respect however, when it comes to certain girls it is just sex and that is all. A man does the honorable thing of marriage on someone he loves.
Go ahead and sleep with all the married men who cares!
Sometimes we married women are naive about the cheating however we catch on eventually. Not all married men cheat.
Word gets around who is easy also when it comes to women.
2007-03-12 13:57:24 · answer #2 · answered by Emily L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The word married means off limits. Even if the married man is easy to bed. You should back off and stay away from anyone who is married. What would that say about you and besides put yourself as the wife. Pretty down low and cheap. Married men get excited about a cheap thrill especially if its an easy lay and they know that any woman that would have sex with a married man isnt interested in a commitment but a quick, dirty cheap thrill. They always go home. That said both the cheater and cheatee are cheap and nasty!!
2007-03-12 13:01:31 · answer #3 · answered by Wolf woman 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I can honestly say that my husband does not fall into that category. I guess he is happy, secure and gets all his needs met at home.
The one's that stray are not all the thrilled about being married, are unhappy and are insecure about themselves. If only they would use some of that enthusiasm, appreciation and generosity in their marriage. A married women is not entirely to blame, the married husband who demands attention with no plan, is.
Men are just lazy and if buying a few things to get a thrill is what he's after, he'll do it but he'll always go home to his wife. If anything, a person who beds a married man is in essence, being the one used, cheaper than a hooker and probably cleaner .
2007-03-12 13:10:01 · answer #4 · answered by trojan 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You know, I've noticed the same thing with single men.
edit - response to extra info - Oh, I know all to well. I've been on all sides of the cheating triangle as some point in my life. I understand that your trying educate. But they will not hear your words until it happens to them or they become one of them.
I came to an understanding years ago after dating many married men. That even though they were wonderful in bed, that night I was all alone. No one was there to cuddle me. I realized that there was more to life than just great sex, there was great companionship too. And that can only be found with a man who is single.
That was a growing point for me, and I know eventually you too will learn it. (or one similar to it)
2007-03-12 12:55:05 · answer #5 · answered by Poppet 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart don't blame the wife for a wandering husband. The truth is any man is easy to bed, that just is the nature of a man. Only the ones that have discovered the value of one woman are smart enough to not fool around. Why are you trying to hook the married ones? Can't get one of your own? You do notice they are willing to sleep with you but not marry you, don't you. There lies the true test.
2007-03-12 13:00:43 · answer #6 · answered by lily 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Ever hear of the "Seven year Itch"? Well some men experience the "One year itch", the "Two year itch", etc. Married men are so easy to get in bed because that is all they want- to get in bed. They are not worrying about impressing their friends, or a life-long mate or a mother to their children. THey arent even looking for compatability. They are just looking for sex. And as to why they are so "enthusiastic and appreciative and generous"...well, what do you think? THey are trying to be the man that you want them to be so they can get SEX!
2007-03-12 12:56:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Many married women tend to take their husband for granted
and cease to be the submissive, feminine, eager to please
girls they were before marriage...
Often the BJ is the first to go and men really miss them...
2007-03-12 12:53:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are doing something wrong committing a crime against God, and you will have to answer to him in the end Men always want something they can't have find you a single guy and get with him is cause commenting a sin is a spiritual war fare.
2007-03-12 13:12:11 · answer #9 · answered by trueexposure 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
That's a nice generalization. Not all men are easy to bed. I think you would find me to be quite the challenge, for example.
Some are, though. Some aren't prepared for an apreciative woman who actually responds to their advances. Some aren't ready for a woman who flirts with them. And then there are those, of course, who just want to have everything they lay eyes on.
As for me, I'm content with what I've got.
2007-03-12 20:12:59 · answer #10 · answered by Sean J 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Men who cheat are evil. But sometimes their wifes married them for the wrong reasons. They attract them with hot sex and then once married no longer give them sex.
2007-03-12 12:52:02 · answer #11 · answered by Devdude 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋