my girlfren is signing up for a scholarship tu USA, im curently in MALAYSIA...
what shud i feel?
she's my everything..
2007-03-12 05:47:21 · 22 answers · asked by searching~ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If she receives this scholarship, she will only be bettering herself. You should be happy for her in that aspect.
It's okay to feel sad or angry that she is leaving, but, it is a learning process that you will have to overcome in order to prepare yourself for the next time something like this should happen. Believe it or not, it builds character. And only makes you stronger.
2007-03-12 05:53:06 · answer #1 · answered by Nik 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well what you should do is ask her for her phone number and address so you could write to her and call her....Buy her something before she leaves..You should stop thinking about her too much but don't just give up but if it is way too long then maybe you should cause you need to start making up for your life with a different love.
2007-03-12 12:52:52 · answer #2 · answered by Just loved myself 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes when a situation looks bad it's really meant to be.
It will be hard and you'll miss her but life does go on.
Just surround yourself with family and friends and try to stay positive.
Time will heal you.....just give it time.
And you'll meet someone else in the future.
Stay strong and take care!
2007-03-12 12:52:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not an easy thing but you have truly ask yourself questions and honestly answer. Do you love her or the fact that you are not alone? Can you picture yourself without her and by your self? Can you picture her with someone else and be OK with it? If not, you are co-dependant and probably value her feelings over your own. Respect yourself and who you are.
2007-03-12 12:57:32 · answer #4 · answered by randob1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she everything to you then you should go with her and go to usa... if you don't then I see why... you can't go with her becasue your family at your home MALAYSIA??? or what?? don't think feel just if you truly love her tell her you want to go and if she said no then that mean it over... that how you will know by her answer.
2007-03-12 12:51:04 · answer #5 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why cant you marry her and make her and get a job at u.s and go along with her or pursue her to stay in Malaysia.if she too loves you sooo much and your are every thing to her she might oblige.if it is true love for you you may stay at Malaysia ,until she returns or you both get married at a convenient circumstances.
2007-03-12 12:54:39 · answer #6 · answered by dpkdrj 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry but get used to the idea wish her the best if u truly love her ull want her to get an education and have the best in life if u two are meant to b ull find each other again if not be glad shes not ur everything God is meant to b ur everything not some girl what if she died?
2007-03-12 12:51:38 · answer #7 · answered by ladyluck 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
is there a possibility she seeks a distant scholarship to remove herself from your <=> ? if not, is there any possibility you could go to USA with her for the duration of study? it's a difficult time for you but try to be happy for her. love stinx, yeah yeah
2007-03-12 12:57:09 · answer #8 · answered by rapunzel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can imagine it is not easy for you to let her go, but you have to be proud of her, that she has achieved so much. If your love is strong it will survive the separation without problem and in the end you will be happy, because she has pursued her studies.
2007-03-12 12:51:37 · answer #9 · answered by remy 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Find a new girl and get on with your life. Or better yet, try to live your own life without having to attach yourself to someone else.
2007-03-12 12:51:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋