My boyfriend and I have been going out a month, but we have been best friends for a year. We spend a lot of time together, almost every day. We have a great connection, both mentally and physically. However, I want to wait until marriage. He has had sex before and I've heard it's practically impossible to withold sex for too long after you've already had it. I love him so much and he has told me how much he loves me. He told me that yes, he does want sex because he is a guy, but not until I am ready, and he knows that is marriage for me. The other night things got a little out of hand and he moved my hand down to his area and he also started to "dry hump" me (sorry TMI I know) and I felt bad afterwards, and he felt bad for making me feel bad. I would do anything for him, but he respects my decision. I almost feel like I'm being selfish and causing him to be really frustrated. Is this unfair for me to expect him to wait? He doesn't make me feel this way, I just feel I am.
2007-03-12 05:41:49 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
He's never made me feel this way, I just feel that way.
I'm 20 and he's 25.
2007-03-12 05:42:21 · update #1
It is not unfair for you to expect him to wait!!! This all has to do with respect!!! If he doesn't respect your decision now, he won't respect you anymore, after you give him what he wants. Sweetie, you could be like him in a matter of 5 minutes, but he can never be like you again (celibacy). Wait till your married, you won't regrete it.
2007-03-13 01:55:07 · answer #1 · answered by WV_Nomad 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋