Would you say yes if your boyfriend asked you to move in with him to his mother's house where he lives along with his mother, his younger brother and his wife? You are 28 and single, your boyfriend is 35 and divorced. The divorce wiped him out financially and that is why he had to move back in to his mother's house. You are not engaged or planning to marry anytime soon.
2007-03-12 05:35:58 · 14 answers · asked by trax2345 2 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Absolutely not. It shows that not only does he not respect his parents home but he doesn't think too highly of you. A bad financial situation is understandable but, I would suggest you find out why he divorced-ie, was it him or his wife or mutual? Free sex is free sex- don't put the cart before the horse. Be mercenary-what advantages are there for you? How does it make you look? If he loves you then it isn't appropriate anyway.....
2007-03-12 05:42:05 · answer #1 · answered by ARTmom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't move in with him at his mother's house. That sounds like a total disaster. You wouldn't have any privacy and it seems like there are too many people living there already. If you feel its worth it, then wait for him to become financially stable again. Then he would be able to afford his own apartment and if he wants you to move in at that time then say yes.
2007-03-12 05:45:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, i wouldnt, too many families under 1 roof, you say neither engaged or plans to, i would give your relationship the time and space it needs to grow, and then plan a place for yourselves, together
2007-03-12 05:40:55 · answer #3 · answered by ♠ Merlin ♠ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no.. don't move in with him. stay where ever you are. or if he's ready for a real commitment you should lease an apartment together. but don't move into him mother's house.
2007-03-12 05:40:03 · answer #4 · answered by Freddie xoxo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im living with my bf and his family right now.. . im 17 and hes 22.
but if you really want to then do it. if you have a place of your own... why not let him move in with you, that way if you guys fight, you can kick his a.ss out.
2007-03-12 05:41:45 · answer #5 · answered by Oklahoma Economist 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Noooooooooooo!!!! no privacy someone judging you on when you get up when you go to sleep when you clean what you eat ...............not to mention you can never have a private fight why not ask him to move in with you instead its a nightmare
2007-03-12 05:41:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, because I love him and care for him enough, and I don't care about money or where we live as long as we are together and happy.
Why? You in that situation ?
2007-03-12 05:40:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I wouldn't. I don't need to live with someone else's mom. It's hard enough living my own.
2007-03-12 05:39:42 · answer #8 · answered by Evil Girl Geniuz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My girlfriend did, but now we live together in an apartment.
2007-03-12 05:46:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
uh, no. Why punish his mother for his mistakes?
2007-03-12 05:40:09 · answer #10 · answered by Kyle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋