How am i supposed to cope with my friends suicide??

Question

My friend killed himself a couple of days ago and his funeral is today after school but for some reason i still cannot beleive it and i am still mentally hurting and i cant think about it and not cry
Is it ever going to get better??

Answer 1

I'm very sorry for you. I know exactly how
you are feeling. I found out in Oct.06' that
my best friend died. And I'm still crying. I
loved him and I see his face in my head all
the time. I can't listen to the music him and
I did because it reminds me of him. It is very hard. I won't ever get over it. But I know that if I do things to keep busy I can
get through. But there are times that I just
break down. I have tears in my eyes now,
but there is nothing you can really do. I do
believe that with time it will get better. I hope that you will feel better in time.

Answer 2

You'll find it easier to believe after you've been to the funeral and spent time with his other freinds and family. It will still be hard and it will still hurt and you will still cry, but slowly it will get better.

I'm sorry to hear about your loss - it's awful to think of a young life wasted like that.

Answer 3

hello
Please let me express my sincere sympathy to you
let me also tell you when someone commits suicide
it is not your fault. It is difficult to cope with the death of someone regardless how it happened.
You can't believe this because you are in shock
you might be crying now but you will. You won't forget him
You need to let the tears out, its okay to cry. Dont be afraid to cry anyone who tells you not to haven't been through it.

Answer 4

that is a very tough thing to deal with. when you are thinking about him, think of all the happy times that you spent togethr,& remember its always ok to cry. it will get better once you truly discover the reason he killed himself. if you know the reason, and its bad, try to fix the bad thing that happened. if its good, then dont do anything about it & you'll get over it. just know he did it for a reason, and if it is an important reason, then you'll know why.