i am really want a baby with my parter cause i love him very since i had a misscariage 1 year ago he will never talk to me about it and then when i ask him if he wany to try for a baby again he goes funny with me why is this
2007-03-12 05:12:44 · 10 answers · asked by carla e 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You do not sound mature enough to be choosing to have a baby with anyone
2007-03-12 05:24:50 · answer #1 · answered by misbehave4me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello.
Maybe a couple of things...
First of all - the miscarriage may have affected him in an unforeseen way so rather than ask about having another baby ask him about how he feels (yeah, I know - weird asking a guy how he feels!).
Secondly, it may just be that he does not want another baby with you - is your relationship faltering through another issue at all..??
The procrastination he carries on with may mask another deeper issue - it would be a good idea to see if the two of you being together is a good idea first before concentrating on the other items.
It may be that he sees you and all he thinks of is 'baby' and he cannot (for whatever reason) deal with that right now. Make sure that this is not the only things that you go to him about - both of your lives must consist of things other than babies...
Good luck - remember it does not HAVE to be this guy - if it does not work with him it can be someone else.
2007-03-12 12:22:30 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is probably scared that it could happen again. I am sure he was excited the first time around with the idea of him being a father and then it just didnt happen. Try to talk to him outside the home, in a different place like a walk around the beach, over dinner at a nice restaurant...
2007-03-12 12:18:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be one of those stupid women that love men that treat them like crap...you need to get away from this guy. He wont help you take care of your baby once you have it. Unless you are financially stable and can take care of a child by yourself, take your birth control pills and don't poke holes in his condom.
2007-03-12 12:30:06 · answer #4 · answered by Ghanaian Princess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as you have lost one in the past even though you may be ready for another not all man think the same way they take this as bad as we do and id say to your partner or reasure him to talk to you about it when hes ready
2007-03-12 12:22:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably hasn't a clue what you're talking about - why not learn to read and write first or at least use a spellchecker.
2007-03-12 12:16:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are a woman u can st him up. the choice is urs. he is just scared to lose the child again. its time for u as a woman to act.
2007-03-12 12:24:54 · answer #7 · answered by vfm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ither hes scared to lose the child again with miss carriage or hes not ready to have a kid at this moment ...it can be ither one of them
2007-03-12 12:17:52 · answer #8 · answered by vanessa g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ermmmmmm he dont want one darling he may have a medical problem ie firing blanks tell him to explain his actions darling
2007-03-12 13:55:26 · answer #9 · answered by dream theatre 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you mean steal one, or have one himself?
2007-03-12 12:18:03 · answer #10 · answered by Ridgmonthome 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋