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To concieve. So far, I have been trying for 4 months and have been anything but successful. Everytime i turn around, I am getting my period. I really want a baby and i am barely 20, But I want children early on. Someone please help...I have tried the ovulation calendars and still nothing..I have no medical insurance so I cant go to a doctor. Any suggestions? (Ive tried opk's too!)

2007-03-12 04:37:41 · 16 answers · asked by Mommy2Be 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting Trying to Conceive

I know i said i have no medical insurance, so why have a baby, right? I am starting a new job and between insurance right now, so no worries, i will be covered, but all i want is to concieve!

2007-03-12 04:39:32 · update #1

I know I do not have medical insurance, and I did not ask to be judged. In the state I live, I can get medical insurance if i become pregnant, it isnt the issue. I just want a baby, and advice..Not to be criticized.

2007-03-12 05:04:36 · update #2

16 answers

Im the same age as you and happily married and dont care what anyone thinks!!!I lost a baby to ectopic last year and when my husband returns from the army in amy we will tey again.I believe the simple answer to your question is your trying to hard!just relax

2007-03-12 08:40:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I would recommend getting in touch with the Couple to Couple League to learn Natural Family Planning. By charting your cycles you will learn when you are most fertile and so when you are most likely to conceive. Having a baby is a huge responsibility, make sure you have a stable home environment in which to raise the child. Also you said that you will get health insurance with your job, what about after the baby is born? How will you support yourself and the child then?

2007-03-12 20:24:29 · answer #2 · answered by MrsC 4 · 0 0

Now everyone can cure infertility using this natural remedy http://pregnancyhelps.info
infertility can run in the family and one of the first things the doctor asks you when you go to a fertility clinic is your family history regarding cases of infertility or other reproductive issues.
If infertility is caused by genetic disorder then it's not unusual that one of the kids (your mom) doesn't have it and another does (your aunt).
two months of trying is still to early to be concerned about the fact that you might be infertile and it's also quite early to go to a fertility specialist. Go to a regular Obgyb to get a closer insight and see what ways there are are to improve your fertility rate.
Also remove alcohol, caffeine and cigarettes from your life because they might influence your chances too. Stress is also a risk factor when it comes to infertility.

2014-12-21 06:37:05 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0 0

It seems like it is just not the right time for you. ( I know it sucks to hear that) But seriously, you are still really young and you have NO insurance.... you should wait till you have med. insurance so your baby can have the best care. It seems like you really want it now, but you need to think about what is best for your future child too.
I do wish you the best of luck though no matter what..... and if you do decide you want to keep trying, I would wait till a year of trying with nothing, because four months really isnt too long. (I know it is long for you, but not so long to worry about infertility problems)
Good luck!!

2007-03-12 05:21:19 · answer #4 · answered by Just Waiting 2 · 0 0

If you have only be trying for 4 months - that's the problem!! It can take anything up to 2 years to conceive a child especially of you have been on the pill. My advice would be keep trying and if your really worried go and see a doctor!!

2007-03-12 05:16:32 · answer #5 · answered by danielle20031884 1 · 0 0

When you can't get pregnant, and things look good from the outside, it can be extremely frustrating.
The first thing to consider is how long have you been trying. About 80% of couples will get pregnant after six months of trying, and about 90% will be pregnant after 12 months of trying to get pregnant. Anyway this is a great methid to get pregnant fast https://tr.im/51901

2015-01-24 09:02:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

It could be that you are trying to hard. If you try to hard sometimes you just cant. So just sit back and take it day by day. It will happen but it just takes time. You should look in to insurance especially if you want to get pregnant and have a baby.... You will need it soon.

2007-03-12 04:42:25 · answer #7 · answered by angelaleal79 2 · 0 0

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Infertility is a condition defined as not being able to become pregnant after at least one year of unprotected, regular, well-timed intercourse. Women who suffer from multiple miscarriages may also be diagnosed as infertile. Infertility may be classified into two groups, primary and secondary infertility.

2016-02-11 01:45:46 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0 0

well if u dont have insurance now when want to get preg u need to reconsider especially since u dont want to be going into a new job preg, get a job first. u could have fertility prob. u may c a doc. it only been 4 months. maybe that god way of saying u should not have one right now

2007-03-12 04:59:36 · answer #9 · answered by kelly h 3 · 0 0

Stop trying so hard, all the you are stressing is not going to help.Just try and go with the flow eat a balanced diet and RELAX!!!!!!Try a few romantic days away or a chill out day at home with your partner.Good Luck hope all goes well for you.

2007-03-12 04:42:35 · answer #10 · answered by red 2 · 0 0

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