because when he is on the computer i know that he will be looking for their emails and then he calls them on the way to
work in the mornings .
2007-03-12 04:19:48 · 22 answers · asked by lucky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Your gut is never wrong. I would confront him and see what he says. If you're not ready for the truth, then don't ask, get your composure and figure out what you want to do if he is cheating. Are you going to stay, are you going to leave, are you going to get tested? These are all questions that you should address before you open a can of worms that you are ready to eat.
2007-03-12 04:23:57 · answer #1 · answered by Lisa D 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
If his behavior is bothering you you need to sit down and have a long talk with him. Let him know that these activities bother you and hurt your feelings and make you wonder if something more is going on. See what his response is and then decide on your next course of action. Remember, marriage is a lot of hard work but gives the best benefits. Is your husband feeling unloved by you, unappreciated? Take a love note in his jacket pocket or his lunch box. Give him a back rub after a really hard day of work, or after working in the yard. Let him eat dinner watching tv as a treat and bring it to him. Good luck and God Bless.
2007-03-12 11:28:37 · answer #2 · answered by tersey562 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It doesn't sound like you trust him and if not, then trust your instincts. I'm assuming "they" are women. If he's being secretive about these emails, I would think there is a reason for it. Trust is the most important thing in a relationship and if you don't have that, it's just a matter of time before there is more to worry about. Talk to him, see where it goes.
2007-03-12 11:27:53 · answer #3 · answered by georgiarose_01 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Men have 3 states of mind. They are cheating, they are thinking about cheating, they are thinking about the consequences of cheating. It may be just e-mails and phone calls. There is a line, very fat or very thin depending upon where you are coming from, that says it is or is not cheating. You have to decide where it is for you and your hubby.
2007-03-12 12:02:10 · answer #4 · answered by bocasbeachbum 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He gets emails from women whom he then calls in the morning when you can't hear what they are saying. Um, YEAH, something is not right...hello! Plus, pretty much when you ask, something is going on. ALL women have fantastic intuition about this stuff
2007-03-12 11:24:53 · answer #5 · answered by Stormy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How do you know this? Do you read his e-mail? How do you know he calls them? Do you check his cell phone for dialed messages?
Talk to him. Find out what he is feeling and see if you can work together to make your marriage a success.
2007-03-12 11:24:11 · answer #6 · answered by Blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
down load a free keylogger or buy one and put one on the pc. then you will be able to read all his emails, and get his passwords and all, then you will really be able to see what is going on, and yes, more than likely of course, if he is talking in email and calling girls of course he is,
2007-03-12 11:23:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you think he is cheating, then you need to ask him and talk to him about it! Dont keep guessing, but confront him! If he is, then kick him to the curb. No woman or man deserves a cheating spouse.
2007-03-12 11:23:53 · answer #8 · answered by Encouragement 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Just ask him who he is calling/emailing
2007-03-12 11:29:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
its a possibility..Im a PI, and have investigated many casses of infidelity...change in look, behiavior towards you, schedule change...weight loss...all are things that may indicate infidelity.How dop u know he calls them on the way to work?
2007-03-12 11:24:47 · answer #10 · answered by suzie F 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋