2007-03-12 04:16:29 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Have you ever heard the saying, "there is a ******** for every women". You did hear this saying ?
Sorry I never heard it, just wildly answering your question...LOL ! Have a blessed and great day dear !
2007-03-12 04:22:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
Some things start out as learned behavior from childhood conditioning: when a woman is a child her father is usually more distant than the mother IE the traditional roles of the man going out to work and the mother staying at home, it can become a challenge to get favor and attention form the father and this can be translated later in a relationship to a man.Your relationship to your mother can do this also especially if SHE was cold and distant. So experiencing this can constantly make you inclined to go for something that seems out of reach. (I'm sorry I 'm probably not explaining very well ). This can become an addiction like being addicted to drugs . Your brain becomes addicted to certain brain chemicals when in certain situations. When you are involved with a "bad boy" the stress releases certain chemicals in your brain and then when he is nice to you your brain gets flooded with the feel good chemicals . So the seesaw of all this chemical stuff attaches to certain receptors in your brain Like being addicted to a drugSo that you are inclined to repeat it. I'm definitely not explaining it very well but I hope that this sheds some light because I can relate.There is a lot of this topic discussed in the book and movie "What the Bleep do we know"
2007-03-12 11:38:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably because your dad was a complete @$$hole and in your heart that what a man is. It's even possible that ordinary men become complete @$$holes in your presence because that's the relationship you insist upon. You can be sure the entire problem originates within you. Pay more attention to who you turn into when you "fall in love." That's where your clues will be. I agree with the person above, who said that you should become a "bad" girl. It's always more fun to be the one who needs correcting than the one who has to correct others. They are chumps.
2007-03-12 11:24:14 · answer #3 · answered by Nowpower 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Well I was told in my case I had the stray dog syndrome .as a child I was always bringing in strays or hurt animal es to patch up and get them better .I carried that over to falling in love with and feeling sorry for that type of man .That sounds better then wanting someone like your father .Low self esteem.I got over it and married a wonderful man ,so far 7 years of just bliss .So hang in there ,there is hope for you yet .:)
2007-03-12 11:28:24 · answer #4 · answered by Elaine814 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer is simple. You think you are in love. Get to know each other well. Don't let lust make you feel that you are in love. A guy and a girl will both know at about the same time that they love one another enough to want to spend the rest of their lives together.
2007-03-12 11:23:05 · answer #5 · answered by Yafooey! 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are not alone I could kick my youngest daughters you know what! She is 29, two children, and the last two men she has been "in love" with are complete...you said it!
The first was charged and found guilty of child molestation of her oldest son and this second one just got her arrested for dealing cocaine for him. And they are still at it from what I hear. She is going to loose both her children I am almost sure.
Girls please watch out for these losers...it not only effects you but it can effect your children, your parents, and even your grandparents. By going with losers you are showing great disrespect for your grandparents as well as your parents.
There are a lot of good guys out there who will respect you and your family. Remember also no matter how hard you may try you will never change a scum-bag they can only change themselves.
2007-03-12 11:39:39 · answer #6 · answered by pinelake302 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Make a new list of criteria used in locating men. These hole men usually have certain attributes in common, avoid those.
2007-03-12 11:21:20 · answer #7 · answered by SALSA 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because they think that "badboys" are sexier and that nice guys are boring in bed. Well, let me tell you something. This guy's a nice guy and I am far from boring, both in and out of bed. Plus, I know how how to treat a woman with the respect they deserve. Luckily for me. I have found a woman who loves me for who I am. And believe me, you'll never see her complain about her relationship on here. I love her more than anything in the world and she knows it.
2007-03-12 11:29:54 · answer #8 · answered by BigJake418 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I would recommend becoming a bad girl yourself, that way, all the nice guys and the bad guys will be attracted to you... oh and stop falling in love...never commit 100% of yourself to one guy, otherwise, you will end up pissed. Follow my advice, and you'll have a lot more fun.
2007-03-12 11:20:38 · answer #9 · answered by Tina 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's not Karma, to the person that said that... >.>
Girls like assholes. You're not alone, it just happens. You go through a few assholes and then wise up and realize you need to find a good guy. So, sadly, you'll most likely find a few more assholes before you find the right guy.
2007-03-12 11:21:05 · answer #10 · answered by Robeau 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Karma is as Karma does. You obviously draw these anal retentive barflies to yourself because you haven't resolved your own deficiencies from past relationships. As long as you continue this you will recieve what you offer.
2007-03-12 11:33:58 · answer #11 · answered by Master Ang Gi Guong 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋