I have a friend, my mom's friend's son, and my mom and his mom want us to be together. I like him but don't want him to know it cause I like someone else too. I act like I don't like him cause if I end up with the other person, I dont want to hurt him. But if I end up with him, then I wasted my time. What should I do?
2007-03-12 04:15:19 · 8 answers · asked by --; cookie. 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
I have liked him before the other boy, so it's sorta a matter of pressure from my mom and his cause they even tell me that I will get married to him, have his baby and all that other crap. They aren't even joking. I can tell by the way he acts around me that he likes me to but feels the same way I do.
2007-03-12 04:25:40 · update #1
tell your Mom and her friend .. thank you for thinking about me but I need to make decisions on my own life.. myself
2007-03-12 04:18:35 · answer #1 · answered by Mopar Muscle Gal 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Tell your Mom the truth, about the other guy you kinda like, and maybe she'll back off a bit. I'd go out with the other guy first, to see if that's gonna go anywhere cause' he's not as closely tied to your family. (Mom & Mom friends, etc) If you go out with the guy and like him a little but find yourself thinking about the other "friend" guy, then you should probably just face facts that he's the one you've truly got it for. But, I do agree with you in this......don't hurt him if you don't have too! Good Luck!
2007-03-12 11:26:44 · answer #2 · answered by Green eyed girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are no deadlines attached to this: probably you will know this guy a long time because your moms are friends. So why feel pressured now to act - and why would you be the one to act anyway? You should sit back and listen to both guys - him and the other one that you like. Let them take the lead in approaching you - it's not up to you to 'offer' yourself to either one like a plate of spaghetti! You can be friendly to both and allow them to share their feelings
2007-03-12 11:23:01 · answer #3 · answered by kathyw 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Obviousley Your Young Everyone thinks they Need to be in One Relationship!
There is No reason Why You should Only Be strapped to one Boy .. Have Fun... Be truthfull witht the Boys .. Unless you really want to be tied down .. Let them Know your not interested in a seriouse relationship!
JUST FUN
Live life !!
No reason...SIGH ....
2007-03-12 11:23:13 · answer #4 · answered by cookiemonster5150@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TALK ABOUT PRESSURE!!! heehee well, i also like 2 guys right now, although there is no family involved. ok so appearantly u know the "friend guy" likes u, but what about the other one? ask him if he does (if u dont have the courage, ask one of ur friends to do it). if he does, major chrisis. if he doesnt, well then id probably go with "friend guy". u dont have to listen to me though. its ur life. live it the way u feel. hope this helps!
2007-03-12 14:12:32 · answer #5 · answered by rachel13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can like and love two people together or at the same time if you are mature enough to accept the excitement.
2007-03-12 11:21:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then date him and make your mom and your friend's mom and him happy.
2007-03-12 12:22:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out with both of them, and see which one you like the most after all how else are you going to know. :)
2007-03-12 11:20:53 · answer #8 · answered by never give up 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋