him but we love and care for each other and i feel really bad everytime she says that and she told me to not go to her house anymore my bf tells me not to worry about it that shes crazy.what should i do?any suggestions?
2007-03-12 04:03:35 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well first of all the mom cant say nothin because its not her relationship and she cant tell ha son who 2 date. His mom had chance 2 date boys so she should give him a chance 2 be with who he want 2 be with. If yah really care 4 eachother you will not let the mom come between yah love life.
2007-03-19 10:10:46 · answer #1 · answered by J@N1C3E. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG! some mothers are Death!!!
U need to explain ur situation bit better, like age diff and how long u guys been together? if u havent been wit him that long, try not to stay with him any longer! She will not change if she has already started saying stuff liek that. She may have something else against you and thats the only way she can express that she's not happy with you maybe. Even thought u maybe are 'too young for him' as she says
2007-03-18 20:48:06 · answer #2 · answered by hondachick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot depends on how old you are and how old he is. If he is over 18 and you are not, that's not legal.
Don't go to his house. She is protecting both her son and her future. If the two of you were intimate and you became pregnant, it will cost her.
His mother is not crazy. She is experienced in the ways of the world. Listen to her.
2007-03-12 11:09:14 · answer #3 · answered by Blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry about it hen im 18 an ma b/f is 36 an ma maw an dad didnt agree with it to start with but we have been the gether for 2 years an they are now fine about it..just give it time
2007-03-12 11:19:22 · answer #4 · answered by claire4john 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey u knw if u love him soo much n he loves u very much so a dnt fink u must b afraid of his mother.de greatest fing is dat hes older nt smaller than u so he can decide wots best 4 both of u.u cant go 2 his home so y dnt cm 2 ures.
2007-03-18 10:31:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my first husband was 41 years older than me my family said the same i did not hear them i heard my heart and went on it is much better to be a older mans sweet heart than an young mans slave have him tell his mom he will make his choise and see the lady he loves his mom chose his father and his choise is you you dont have to go to his house to see each other dont let her keep u two apart
2007-03-20 04:34:14 · answer #6 · answered by minniemeee2003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to have a really long-lasting relationship with a boy if his mother doesn't approve. Also, think of it this way: he's calling his mother 'crazy' to you; when is he going to be calling you 'crazy' to someone else?
You may indeed be too young!
2007-03-16 23:48:48 · answer #7 · answered by kathyw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Respect his mom's wishes. If she tells u not to come around anymore, then don't. She knows her son better.
2007-03-19 23:50:01 · answer #8 · answered by Nora C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she had any complaining to do she have done it from the start. Be nice to her and keep seeing her son until he no longer wants to see you.
2007-03-19 11:44:21 · answer #9 · answered by LDJ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dnt be so affected wat his mom say about you,jzt try to understand his mom..maybe she jzt think that bcoz ur so young for her son ur not serious in ur relationship.prove to her that shes wrong..show her how much u love her son.and besides,watever she says to you if her son really loves you she cant do anything..if she dnt want you to go to their house,do it.there are many place you can go aside from there house..dnt worry,time will come his mom will stop complaining to you..
2007-03-12 12:07:11 · answer #10 · answered by cinderella 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋