this guy has always stared at me and for years he has begged me and my husband to sit with him and talk about the problems in our marriage and he asked my husband what i was like in bed and he also asked if i like sex. he also came over to the house one time and i turned around and he was standing right behind me. i didnt even know that he was in the house he just walked in. he knew that his cousin,my husband, was gone. we sat down and started talking and then he said to me. people are going to be home soon. we should take this to the bed room. i was in shock and I honestly didnt realize at first what he was saying and i said yeah we should and he went to my bed room and stayed there waiting for me. I think he was asking me to go to bed with him am i right? i didnt go in the room by the way. he also says that he holds alot back out of respect for his cousin and he was talking about me
2007-03-12 04:01:20 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
This cousin has violated some serious trust boundaries. If I found out my cousin had done anything like this, he would be picking his teeth up off the floor. Tell your husband and put some serious distance between you and the cousin. If your husband has any sense, he will tell the cousin to stay away.
2007-03-12 04:34:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is my husbands cousin in love with me?
2014-12-16 02:14:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lust has nothing to do with love. Please think about putting up some boundaries with this relative. Family can over step boundaries and this one certainly has.
You and your husband should let him know that your marriage, sex life, and problems will not be discussed with him and he is to remain away from your home when both of you are not in the house to receive him as a visitor. And then reinforce these boundaries. It's okay to have them.
Unless you are enjoying the attention - if so - step back before you get burnt.
2007-03-12 04:07:05 · answer #3 · answered by Stefka 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a trap. Never be alone with this man and please tell your husband what you suspect. If your hubby is not responsive to that then just make sure you are not alone with this particular cousin. And another tell this man that you are not interesting in whatever he's trying to give you.
2007-03-12 04:07:34 · answer #4 · answered by kitcat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your husband to knock the crap out of the freak. And stop being nice to the jerk your just egging it on. If you was any kind of decent woman you would smack his face for talking to you that way .Kick the creep where it counts stay away from him he may rape you some day then what will you do.
2007-03-12 04:16:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you having a boy or girl? and when are you due?
2017-03-28 03:16:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boys will be boys....will they ever stop fighting?
2017-03-03 03:13:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well yes he does have a thing for you i think you should tell you husband,
2007-03-12 04:06:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this a Beach Boys song?
2016-11-10 03:24:30 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LEO GUYS: Do you like a clingy girl or an independent girl?
2016-11-01 11:15:43 · answer #10 · answered by Bevvy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋