I have a bofriend i love and i have a friend that is amazing.. what should i do to not fall for my friend though??
Ps. I have known the friend for 6 years now.
Help..
2007-03-12 03:57:35 · 1 answers · asked by twistedinlime 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Theres nothing you can do. The fact is its the natural thing. I mean are you suppose to fall in love and trust a stranger? I've had best friends on both side of the sex line and its just the way it naturally flows. Same Sex friend relationships have some of the same elements as Different Sex sexual relationships. Its hard to explain but the elements are there. So its just natureal for a Different Sex Friend relationship to eventually become sexual. Don't confuse yourself with what societies been shoveling down your throught. History is A+ important to forming a lasting, trusting, and wonderful relationship. Do you want to start over with some guy just because he is being romantic? Or would it make more sense for you to continue to let your relationship with him grow? Its all because of the fact that best friends make great lovers, unfornatly lovers don't aways make best friends. Better to have both or find yourself eventually sleeping with a stranger running to your friend to talk about it.
2007-03-13 08:35:15 · answer #1 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋