everything has been going great and he claims he doesn't talk to her anymore, and then last night...I was bad and snooped on his phone and there's her number....she called him twice in one day. He swears it's all innocent, and that her son called and wanted to come out and fish at our pond. I raised hell because I don't believe him....should I believe him or not?
2007-03-12 03:52:58 · 8 answers · asked by elfkin, attention whore 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It is a hard call but you need to trust you instincts. He needs to realize that it is hard for you to trust him again if he is secretly accepting calls from her. He should tell you about it even if it is innocent. I believe if the both of you want to stay in this marriage then counseling should be attended because you will never learn to trust him fully again unless you air out your situation.
2007-03-12 03:58:46 · answer #1 · answered by Shawnese D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, the choice is yours. Now it didn't show where he called her so maybe he's keeping his end of the bargain. But you sure can't stop her or your her son from calling him unless your hubby has his cell # change. Trust him and then if you find that he has betrayed you once again then you know what you have to do.
2007-03-12 10:58:22 · answer #2 · answered by kitcat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope. there is nothing innocent about it. my children do not call anyone who is not a friend of mine. if they are not talking anymore that means she is not a friend of his anymore. get what i am saying?
he is full of it. take care
p.s. if he continues to claim innocence ask him this " why didn't you tell me the day the son called then and how strange it was that he called out of the blue?"
2007-03-12 11:11:26 · answer #3 · answered by LM 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hell no she should not call him at all if she does that means they is somethink going on again with them you should ask her and she what she says.But they is somethink going on.
2007-03-12 11:15:40 · answer #4 · answered by serinawilson2001 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call and ask!!! If he gets nervous he is lying!! Once a cheater always a cheater!!!
2007-03-12 10:57:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you seriously think he is cheating then there are problems in this relationship, whether or not it is true.
2007-03-12 10:57:52 · answer #6 · answered by lisateric 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt believe him. once a cheat always a cheat. he obviously has no morals.
2007-03-12 10:56:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is a liar.......I wouldn't believe him.
2007-03-12 10:57:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋