please be true to yourself and answer honestly. thanks.
2007-03-12 03:36:22 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It should....The relationship is not blessed by God and nothing good could come out of it.
2007-03-12 03:40:37 · answer #1 · answered by vvvlambert 2 · 3⤊ 3⤋
Of course guilt still exists if you are in a relationship with a married man or woman. Or at least it should. If you are a person without conscience then I suppose guilt never existed for you in the first place, but if you know what you are doing is wrong, then you should feel guilty.
2007-03-12 03:40:18 · answer #2 · answered by QB 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Women that sleep with married men have very low self esteem and simply do not care who they hurt as long as they get what they want. Even though they are nothing but a "piece" to the man, the whore that will sleep with another womans husband actually mistakes sex for love, so she in her mind sees the wife as the other woman not herself. She is selfish...NO I do not think they feel guilt or they would not continue to chase the man when he wises up and works on his marriage, and they would not make life a living hell for the wife that is trying to fix the marriage and the hand she has been dealt. I think "other" women are complete scum. Cheaters are bad, they make mistakes as humans, but the women that do this do it continually because they cannot find a man of their own.
2007-03-12 13:25:18 · answer #3 · answered by Nothing but the truth...!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why wouldn't it? When you have an affair (and it doesn't matter whether you're married or a single person having an affair with a married person) your are literally trespassing where you don't belong.
I have personal issues with infidelity so perhaps I speak from a very jaded perspective, but I dont see how a normal, feeling human being WOULDN'T feel guilty. I know a few misanthropes who wouldn't, but then they're misanthropes.
If you want to cheat, don't--leave the other person first. Don't do it...don't inlfict pain 360 degrees around you.
And always remember--karma is a bit*ch.
2007-03-12 04:21:58 · answer #4 · answered by I am Laurie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends, if they are married and separated and going to get a divorce then, there should be little to no guilt, but if this is something you two are doing behind the spouses back then yes, there will be guilt for all involved in the betrayal.
2007-03-12 03:41:13 · answer #5 · answered by Lovebug123 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course. Let me put you into a situation I had about last year. I was single and right before I met my husband, I was messing with this guy. When we met he told me that he had a girlfriend that he was not getting along with but he stayed because of the kids. Of course we slept together on many occasions but something in the back of my mind told me there was more to the story than he was letting on to be. So he took me on a trip back to the city where he lives. I have a friend who stays there also so I stayed with her. On the way to the airport, he had a wedding ring on his finger. I fussed him out and told him that when I we got down there I did not want to hang with him. I did hang with him, he took me and my friend to lunch and we went to the club on the last night I was there but after I got back home I stopped calling him cause how would I feel if my husband was cheating on me. I felt guilt and repentance for what I did I could not believe that I had been lied to. His take on marriage was horrific. He said that marriage was something that man made up. I was like.....no it is something that God sactified. I have been married now for 4 mos and I could not imagine if I husband had that type of thoughts running thru his head. But I was not about to be the other woman, so i cut him off completely.
2007-03-12 03:48:36 · answer #6 · answered by Shawnese D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me being in this situation currently....yes there is definately guilt, but it can be overshadowed and forgotten depending on the feelings involved. If it is just sexual in nature I don't imagine I would be able to handle the guilt, but if the relationship involves the two of you being in love whether one is married or not the guilt can be forgotten.
2007-03-12 03:43:15 · answer #7 · answered by CuriousOne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think yes, some would! I had a relationship with a married man once! I knew he was married, and it wasn't sexual. They were having problems and he kind of leaned on me for support. I did feel bad, and that guilt is what kept it from becoming sexual!
He would say bad things about his wife, so it helped me not think about it because he appeared to be unhappy with her anyway!
2007-03-12 03:41:08 · answer #8 · answered by April M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I did it once, and no, I felt no guilt. Well, actually I felt guilty BECAUSE I felt not guilt, if that makes sense! My husband was very mean, never home, and the guy was married to a witch who spent all his money on cocaine. Sad, and I have changed (as I will never do that again) but no, I felt no guilt.
2007-03-12 03:42:41 · answer #9 · answered by bina64davis 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it defence of your situation if you are married and having an affair with another married person then thats just wrong, but if you are married and cheatin on your wife or husband then you got issue if you dont feel guilty for what you are doing how can you face your mate with out feeling guilty knowing you are lying to them. not unless your just cold hearted. i guess where it boils down to is if you have the urge to be with some one else while you are married then the marrage is over you dont want to be with the same person anymore so why not end it first then save both of you heart ache.
2007-03-12 03:48:50 · answer #10 · answered by ur_asiandesire 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am pretty sure that people who cheat with married people feel guilt, but usually the passion and thrill completely tune out the guilt.
2007-03-12 03:41:10 · answer #11 · answered by stunna3m 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋