My two close frends told me to choose between them and they hate each other. Their names are ranis and helma . They told me i can't have any frend if i don't choose them
2007-03-12 02:50:15 · 19 answers · asked by Diana 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
LEAVE BOTH OF THEM AND ADVISE THEM FIRST THEY DO NOT HATE EACH OTHERS IF THEY WANT FRIENDSHIP WITH ME.
2007-03-12 04:22:30 · answer #1 · answered by RAMAN IOBIAN 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if they both asked you to choose dont choose any but if helma asked you to choose then choose ranis but if ranis asked you to choose then choose helma do get what i mean just find new friends if they are both making you choose and they cant be good friends if they are making you choose they are both bitches and they will end up with no friends at all the way they are going
Good Luck xXx
2007-03-12 02:53:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell ranis and helma at the same time that you love them both and wont choose sides, and if they were really your friends they wouldnt make you choose anyway.
it might help if you tried to get them to be friends with eachother.. or if everything fails you could just hang out with them seperatley.
2007-03-12 02:53:31 · answer #3 · answered by rocket queen 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Real friends don't make you choose. Ranis and Helma are not your real friends. I wouldn't be friends with either of them.
2007-03-12 03:17:30 · answer #4 · answered by GLSigma3 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ranis and helma are goofy names. this means the mental retardation links back to their parents (for naming them so horribly).
dont get pulled into their crap.
if you do burst from all the pressure, just flip a coin.
2007-03-12 03:05:36 · answer #5 · answered by Dr. Atlas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they're both making you choose, then I would just find two new close friends. Neither one of them seem like they are concerned about you and they just don't sound like they are worth the trouble. A good friend would not tell you who else you are allowed to be friends with.
Good luck on finding some new, more mature friends.
2007-03-12 03:08:16 · answer #6 · answered by Julie F 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Choose none.
I'm serious.
They're fighting over you, but you would never ask this of them right?
If you are worth fighting for, other people will see it in your life. These two seem petty enough not to settle their differences but wouldlike to bring you down too?
BUT If you have to (You should never have to) choose someone, it should just come from within, from your heart and feel which of them truly made an imprint on your life.
2007-03-12 02:56:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
choosing one of two is a 50-50 chance situation.. i would say that u can actually try to solve the tensions between ur friends so that u can have both of them wit u. its not a toss to choose head or a tail.. in this situation u r the one who is gonna loose...if things dont work.. listen to ur heart which of ur friend needs u rather than seein who u want on ur side.
2007-03-12 04:49:00 · answer #8 · answered by gmanishparmar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell them both that anyone who makes you choose between one friend or another isn't friend enough for you. They either like you for who you are, or they can go screw themselves. I'd tell them that unless they stop trying to bully people into a friendship, they're going to lose all of their friends. Then I'd wait for them to come to their senses, and not talk to them until I got an apology.
2007-03-12 02:53:30 · answer #9 · answered by Scotty Doesnt Know 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well they really agree on one thing and that is they want you to choose either or. if htey have always hated each other then you are going to choose or sit down with them and explain why you are both there friends and how much you are hurt that they would want to stop talking to you completely just because they are fighting.thats what i had to do
2007-03-12 03:06:21 · answer #10 · answered by C.W. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
y dnt u first try sorting out matter btw ur 2 frndz n if tht doesnt werk thn tell thm tht ull have a seperate n indivisual relation wid the other so tht shudnt bother thm.......n as last resort if u hve to choose btw the 2 thn its totally upto u......go for the 1 who trusts u more......according to me either shud not hve a prob if u keep seperate frndship wid the other afterall its ur life n they cant rule over it
2007-03-12 03:02:02 · answer #11 · answered by nehucool 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋