I love this friend of mine dearly, more than a friend. It is so hard to see them with someone else. I have to do this everyday. =/ They know how feel and everything, we even had a date a few months back. I thought they liked me, but turns out they didn't. Come Valentine's day my feelings for them started to disintegrate, now I am trying to regain those feelings. I love them to death, I swear it. They have helped me SO much through everything. Them being with their S.O. doesn't really bother me that much anymore, I'm slowly getting over that, but there still that one little part of me that says to just let go. Ifeel I may still have a chance with them later on.......what should I do in your opinion?
2007-03-12 02:41:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Remain close friends. If the right moment arises, tell the person how you really feel. Maybe he /she feels the same but isn't sure how to approach it, so the person dates others, thinking he / she doesn't have a chance w/ you. Try holding hands to see your friends' reaction.
2007-03-12 02:49:30 · answer #1 · answered by J Doe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your feelings are already starting to " disintegrate"then it is best not to do anything that may jeopardize the relationship they have with the S.O. You really wouldn't want to break them up and ruin your friendship all in one fell swoop. This is not the only person in the world you will have these feelings for, so just wait . You have a S.O. out there that you haven't met yet.
2007-03-12 09:52:43 · answer #2 · answered by unforgettable_1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would move on. There's no point in wasting your life for someone that you might never get a chance with. You may feel like you will get a chance, but it's doubtful. Find somebody else, maybe it will make your friend jealous and realize that he's losing you and maybe he will wake up and want you. He's enjoying the fact that another woman wants him even though he's taken, but if he feels your slipping away, he might realize your not going to wait around forever.
2007-03-12 09:46:18 · answer #3 · answered by Angel*Eyesz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are together, wether you like it or not. We cant make other poeople feel for us if they dont, its their heart. It doesnt matter if they break up or not because the next girl might not still be you. the only solution is when you feel something from him, a sudden crush or whatever, ignore it. Whatever kinda good emotion from him, you have to throw it all away. Dont trust yourself with him because he might unintentionally get your hopes up and before you know it, crush them. Dont waste yourself with an up and down emotion roller coaster with him.
2007-03-12 09:56:48 · answer #4 · answered by Nikki.[mmk]. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't give yourself any more heart break move on and find you a real love. Good luck!
2007-03-12 09:50:22 · answer #5 · answered by reeree 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, I have no idea what you are talking about...Them, you're talking about A friend, then it turns to them,,, I don't get it!!!
2007-03-12 09:45:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop wanting things you can't have so you do not get hurt.
2007-03-12 09:46:07 · answer #7 · answered by mikey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LET GO AND MOVE ON im really sorry !!!
2007-03-12 09:57:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let go...move on.
2007-03-12 09:45:40 · answer #9 · answered by Emily 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋