I go to church and I've known three girls there to have been my friends up there ever since we were little kids. Somewhere along the line, those girls turned 14 and 15 and started changing. I'm 17. Well, there was a girl that went to my church but then stopped going. I came across her myspace page and looked at her pictures, and I was shocked to see she posted her whole naked booty! I started laughing, then my mom forced me to show her what was funny. I thought might as well I ain't gonna see her no more anyway. But remember the girls I knew since we were very little? My mom got the idea to check their pages for innappropiate stuff. (All were public profiles) I treid to keep her off their pages because I knew they had stuff up there that wasn't right. They also had other things I didn't know about, like one of the girls had a picture of herself with her back towards the camera, her clinging to the wall, and no top on. All three girls posted pictures of where they lived.
2007-03-12
02:31:40
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They also showed their houses. Two of them had several sexually provacative pictures and other bad things on their pages. Now, my mom looked at their pages on her own, and called their mothers. So now all three girls made their pages private and deleted me off their friends list even though I didn't say nothing about them and they know my mom did everything. You could say making them private would keep thm safe, but then again, making them private doesn't mean people still can't see their stuff. Why would they decide I'm not their friend anymore because they chose to post things on their pages that could have got them hurt, raped, or worse, dead?
2007-03-12
02:32:57 ·
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Sounds to me that friends like that are not what your mother would like for you to have as friends anyways. You mother is just trying to protect you and these girls. It sounds to me that at their young age, they are in for a world of trouble if they don't straighten up. You don't need to have friends like that anyways. Someday when you are all grown up, you might bump into these girls and you can all laugh about it... but for now, just realize that since their mothers weren't keeping an eye on them, your mother decided to do what she would have wanted done if it was her child on there exposing herself.
2007-03-12 02:40:24
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answered by mixemup 6
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Because they are embarressed about being caught and they need someone to blame. We had a discussion at the singles meeting at church on our myspace pages, and how they reflect us. This was a very intrguing question because sometimes we put up pictures or songs trying to keep up with the world, and we do not realize that we are God's representatives in all things. The girls are young and dumb. They will get over it when they realize the error of their ways. We must live in the world but not of the world.
2007-03-12 03:16:18
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answered by Lady A 3
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Ya know, sometimes you just can't win in these types of things.
Your mom did the right thing and you need to ask yourself why you really want to be friends with people who act like that in a public forum like myspace? And you met these girls at CHURCH?!?!?!?!?
The girls suck because they are literally feeding pedophiles as if they were candy by posing in those ways. In my opinion. young girls who do that kind of thing are stupid and worthless anyway. If you need to show your a$$ and nakedness on something like myspace to feel cool or worthy, then you have nothing else going for you and are pretty much headed for adult loser-ville.
You are 17 yrs old...right now this seems cool and funny. But think about how you would feel if any of these girls were your daughter? Doing what they are doing is literally advertising that they are willing to be a hooker for a man just to get attention. Is that what you want in your life? Are you really missing their pages or the free child porn?
2007-03-12 02:41:50
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answered by jenni_bu2 2
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DAAAAMN!! They freakin sucks! OMG I feeeeel for you! I'll be ya friend!! GOOD LORD! Lil BAD ASSES! Stupid folk! Well yeah during puberty people ar ebound to change. I happens. And it sucks too because you can lose valuable relationships and alot of other things that mean the world to you. Man that freakin suck....sorry I keep typing that but dang! Lil hos! Aye, if one of em gets pregnant and they dont know who da daddy is they gone come RUNNIN to you!! Are they black? If they are what a disgrace!lol. Yo momma did the right thang! You did too!Man I hope they get molested. Freakin nasty biotches. Who the hell posts pics of where you live?!! dumb ***! You see, these are the folks who make myspace a bad freakin place! Can I get an amen?!
2007-03-12 02:40:49
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answered by coconc93 1
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I think they were probably embarassed, and thought you ratted them out to your mother.
If they mean a lot to you, I think you should ask to talk to them. Tell them that you got in trouble, your mom went through all their stuff, and it was her. Then tell them that posting where they live is crazy, and you don't want anything bad to happen to them.
I am a Girl Scout leader. A couple of my girls have pages, and have added me. I ask them to take out any location info and remind them to be smart, while still respecting their need to have their own "space".
I think you're right to be concerned, if they're your friends. I think if you tell them you were worried about them too, they might understand and get over it.
Good luck.
2007-03-12 02:38:28
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answered by Simply_Renee 6
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2016-12-01 21:16:50
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answered by ? 4
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you did the right thing about showing your mom.but your mom probably told the girls parents that you should her the pictures,which made her go thru the whole web site.so that makes you look like a snitch in the girls eyes.You don't need friends like that ,find some new friends.
2007-03-12 02:37:55
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answered by Anonymous
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They're miffed because they got busted. And it goes back to you finding the myspace pages. And they're probably embarrassed that somebody they knew found out about it. They were probably naive enough to figure nobody they knew would see their pages.
2007-03-12 02:40:54
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answered by G=ME 5
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your mom did the right thing. i know it sucks right now because you feel you are unfairly being punished by your two old friends, but in the end you are probably better off.sounds like you guys are going in different directions. it sounds like they are very foolish and naive to not think something bad could happen to them. just stay strong and surround yourself with people that love you.
2007-03-12 02:41:50
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answered by 4foot9 2
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Your friends made the right choice. You're mother violated them and you failed to protect your dearest friends!
The greates harm you did was to do nothing and just watch you mother beat them to ****!
All you have to do in order to let evil succeed is by doing nothing. When I say evil I mean, your mom!
2007-03-12 02:39:28
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answered by Anonymous
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