I have been married for 5months now. I knew my husband a year before we got married. He is a real gentleman, he still opens doors for me, wont let me carry the groceries, helps me in the house, never raises his voice to me, tells me he loves me everyday, tells me how gorgeous i am, i wake him up at 3am to go with me to the loo and dont complain, complains when i dont wake him up to go with me, attends all family functions with me,is at home every night, never complains, prefers to watch the football with me instead of friends, he doesnt smoke or drink, he is the most fun person to be around, he always listens when i speak to him, when im ill he organises the cooking...he is my best friend..I have done research from his family before we were married and they all tell me that he has been this way all his life..he had a girlfriend but she hurt him..he only had one gf before me.Why wont people believe me when i tell them this, The r always negative and says"enjoy it while it lasts"........
2007-03-12 02:02:08 · 57 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You see what i mean...judging by some answers nobody believes me...why would i lie..i also thought that this is too good to be true..but its true...!We do disagree on some things, yes, but we always make up and speak to each other in a respectable manner...is it so hard to believe there are still afew good men out there?
2007-03-12 02:08:36 · update #1
lol..the reason i wake him up to go to the loo with me is because we have a very big house and the loo is down a very dark passage..i hate the dark..and the light is not enough for me..im very scared of the dark...lol
2007-03-12 02:12:42 · update #2
for your info...people alwasys ask me "hows married life"..thats why i tell them, they ask me the questions and i answer. He is not posessive, i go out with my girlfriends often for a ladies night and he doesnt objest. He is the man in the house and I submit to him totally. He protects me, and just wants me to be happy..Its just frustrating that people are finding this so hard to believe..its sad actually
2007-03-12 02:18:34 · update #3
Most people lost the romance in life.... they forget that fairy tales DO happen. My husband is like that too. A total dream come true but I reached a point where I know he is like that and I love it and thats all that matters. WHO CARES WHAT THE JEALOUS PEOPLE OUT THERE THINKS!!!
2007-03-12 02:06:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I was off a mind to say you dont worry about what others think but having read your words a couple of times now. I would say that he is a controlling personality and you are not being that honest. Why do you need to get him to go to the loo with you at 3am cant you go alone and surely no man I ever knew would complain because I hadnt woken him to go to the loo with me. If its not a control issue its lack of trust. I am sorry you say you are happy but the fact you are posing this question on hear says something is worrying you. Do you think its not a normal situation. Sweet heart there is something not right here and I suggest you sit down and have a long hard honest think about your life with this man. No couple should be in each others pockets 24/7 and thats the impression you are giving.
Be honest with yourself and then you may be able to work things out. If I am way off the mark forgive me but I really dont think so in this case.
2007-03-12 13:46:19 · answer #2 · answered by BigMomma2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife and I are not as outgoing to each other as your husband is but we are best friends as well. We would rather spend time with each other than with our other friends and we have been married fro six years. We don't argue we disagree as you two do and we talk about it. Our relationship is a lot like yours and we have a very open relationship. So the hell with people that tell you to enjoy it while it lasts they are jealous or ignorant to the fact that some people can be happily married.
2007-03-12 02:17:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
And you are telling us this because?
If you are happy why do you care what other people think?
It sounds like people are bored of hearing how great he is?
Its great that you are happy, but to be honoest, by the time I got to the bottom of your email, I felt a bit queasy myself.
Try keeping your good thing to yourself and stop bragging and maybe people will become more positive towards you. No one likes a show off.
Not everyone has a great relationship and you must be like salt in a wound.
Stop thinking about yourself and remember that other people aren't so lucky.
Also, some people might be a bit creeped out that you cant even go to the loo by yourself!
2007-03-12 02:12:16 · answer #4 · answered by michelle a 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Congratulations! Yes, no all men are garbage and you are a lucky lady to be married to one of the few men left on earth worth marrying.
Some peopel are esceptical about finding someone su good and because they never had it as good, they don't know that is possible.
I doo too have the great luck to have a gentlemen in my life. After dating all the wrong men, I finnaly found this great guy. He is perfect in all aspects and everybody tells that I'm lying too! Intil they get too meet him and they know that YES! he is hot, sexy, atractive, succesful, educated, respectuful, kind, has a great familym, he is faithfyl, sweet, well versed, elegant, has a great career, has plenty of money in the bank, he is atletic, he likes to be at home, he treats me like a queen!
So, yes! Congratulations! I believe you.
2007-03-12 02:32:42 · answer #5 · answered by Blunt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because most men/relationships/marriages don't work that way. Its hard to believe something when there is no experience on that level. Thank your lucky stars and hope it always works this way for you. Don't worry about what others believe or don't, just live your life, as it sounds like a very nice one to be living. Best of luck!!
2007-03-12 02:09:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i say pople are jealous, so dont worry. I am married to a great guy been with him since i was 15 now 27, and hes still the same, he is also a great dad, and has a great job also.
I wish you lots of continued happiness, shame there isnt more men like him.
2007-03-12 02:37:40 · answer #7 · answered by hayles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There ARE still decent guy's out there you know--we are not all 'bad boy's' as some women believe us to be! Lisaannd--please don't tar all men with the same brush just 'cos you've picked the wrong planks in the past, be a tad more choosy next time eh, there's a good girl:-)
2007-03-12 11:59:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well hun so long as you know the truth about your husband then who cares what other people think!!! They're most likely just jealous anyway! however if it upsets you when you get responses like you're getting could I just suggest that instead of launching into a whole series of reasons about your husband - when you're asked just say that married life is brilliant - your husband is the most perfect man for you and you've never been happer.
I know you want to scream how wonderful he is - and no one can blame you by the sounds of it - but youre leaving yourself open to ridicule thatway!
xx
2007-03-12 03:40:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds just like my man!!! So I believe you. I've known my man since he was 13 (we both turn 30 this year), and he is STILL the most amazing gentlemen. Be proud. Even when people tell me its too good to be true... I just smile. I know its hard to believe, but just enjoy it... so many women dont find this kind of love! Keep being proud!
2007-03-12 02:28:55 · answer #10 · answered by DitziD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋