I don't know why, but i have extreme bad luck!! Normally I don't screw up, it is normally other peoples actions that set off a chain reaction of bad events.
I tried to move to the city twice: the first time round i couldn't find a job so i had to move, 2 days later i got a job interview but i was completely moved out. the second time i was living in a nice house, couldn't find a job but was on the verge of it. then the landlady tells me i've to move out (refurbishment)
then i tried to move to town i got successful (job and home) but i got a call off another job which i took but then the position was dropped and then i lost my home because i was falsely accused of being racist (i'm not) and then my best friend turned into my gay stalker (i'm straight) I really want to try and start afresh but anytime i do something the polar opposite happens.
also as i'm writing this i got a nosebleed!!!
i'm surprised i haven't gone nuts yet!!
2007-03-12 01:51:10 · 7 answers · asked by dodge 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
dats cause u THINK ur life sucks........dude NOTHING is wrong with you!!
just live life for ONE day as if EVERYTHING was normal,its gnna help....................
2007-03-12 01:59:46 · answer #1 · answered by sLasH 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
The old saying is true...If you don't like your life, then change it.
It did not say it would be easy or come quickly.
Start making the changes one at a time instead of all at once.
Go find a job you like and stick with it...this will become more important as you get older.
If you don't like where you live then after you are good and settled in your job, move.
Go out and make new friends. Smile at people and say hello...even when you don't feel like it.
Start going to new places to hang out.
There are so many ways to change your life if it sucks.
Again...not everything at once, but one thing at a time. Hang in there and keep with it and before you know it (even though it might take a few years) you will be living the life you want.
Keep up a positive attitude and get rid of that negative crap.
Your life is what "you" make of it...so go for it and be happy
be cool...
2007-03-12 09:02:01 · answer #2 · answered by CC Babydoll 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sweetie pie don't stress yourself out; it's going to be alright.You have to keep the faith and keep trying; those instances that happen to you was beyond your control.Don't give up. I am staying strong myself trying not to become depress also; I am looking for work through these agencies and nothing more than 3 days work has come up; but I am not a quitter and neither are you.
PS- Tell your stalker friend that there a too many gay men in the world; and to stop focusing on you ( tell him to watch the gay channel it'll probably lift his spirits).
Keep your head up
Sheila G.
2007-03-12 09:08:18 · answer #3 · answered by Sweet Chocolate 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Life is what YOU make it.
Maybe try reassessing your environment around you.
Don't expect things to happen, the fact you think your life sucks sounds as if you've burned it into your belief system, you need to somehow get out of that rut.
Try doing everything you do, differently.
Start with having something different for breakfast and chant a mantra to yourself.
Smile and say something along the lines of "This is going to be MY day..." and BELIEVE it, even if it means looking at yourself in the mirror and saying it over again.
Try to think positively and things WILL be positive.
Good Luck.
2007-03-12 09:04:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Start by thinking of someone other than yourself. You chose the jobs you chose and made those choices. Take the focus off yourself and go find someone who has it worse than you do. I'm sure it won't be too hard to find someone like that. My point is, be happy with what you have or you just might have it taken away. Thank you and may GOD bless.
2007-03-12 09:21:40 · answer #5 · answered by cookie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look even when everything seen bad and dark you need to tell you self that everything is fine, you bring to your self the good and bad luck, you know think this way the way i think if one door close is because a better one will open, don't get tired and keep trying, think as a winner even if you are losing, and you will have the victory,
2007-03-12 09:22:09 · answer #6 · answered by RED ROSE 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
damn...you have it bad. Somebody must be out there to get you.
Listen, just chill out OK. Ur life doesn't suck. there are people who have it much worse. just try to do things with a clear mind and open heart to make not only improve your life but also to improve the society around you.
Wish you all the best!
2007-03-12 09:01:57 · answer #7 · answered by The Great One 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋