I am a very friendly person who has few good friends but would like to make more friends but i feel ppl are so hard to get close to unless u've known them a long time. what bothers me is that i dont hav a group of friends however a friend here, a friend there. I get along with ppl that i just meet so well and they love me but when i try and make it a more serious on going thing, they just dont make effort. i try and treat them so good and pay for my friends and all but do not hav a GROUP of friends. i get sad coz i like to go out and get dressed up and go and dance but its hard to do that if one if them says no than u dont hav much choice. plz answer genuinly.
2007-03-12 01:39:33 · 9 answers · asked by hondachick 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Let me just add plz, what i meant by payin is that i would do anything for my friends and im very genorous, im not paying them so they wanna be my friend omg! Also, yes i have 2 great frnds and some others on side
2007-03-12 10:22:09 · update #1
stop trying so hard,genuine friends are always there,not just when youre paying
2007-03-12 01:43:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think that your personality is too complex and intense for entertaining a group. You sound like a perfectionist, rare to find a friend who actually cares what you think but that's you. Stick to meeting with one or 2 friends at a time. They might see you as a pillar of strength and wisdom. That's hard to find. I fall in your category an if all your friends are with you they all want your attention at the same time and it drives you insane so stick to what you know... bring there for them and not trying to fit in the category that doesnt need uniqueness.
2007-03-12 01:54:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have your genuine friends who are there for you thru thick and thin and you usually count them on one hand you can be friends with people that isnt so serious and i call them acquaintances. I hang out with them sometimes we go out and generally have fun. . When it comes down to the crunch nobody has that many friends and if you did you would have no time to do anything else. Heres a tip do not pay for friendship true friendship is free bar emotionally of course
2007-03-12 01:51:14 · answer #3 · answered by bobbi 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
to me friendship isnt a matter of a goup of ppl it is about the friends i already do have and know.Even if youre friends dont want to go out dont try and buy youre next ones because that is all they will want from you is for you to pay. a true friend is someone who knows about youre family,pet, brothers,sisters and so forth.If you meet a person who wants to know about you and everything you like and dislike you know in the end they are youre true friend.I have a very good friend we havent seen each other in over 12 years and we picked up right where we left off. joking, laughing ,huging and crying.sharing yesterdays memories and todays stories. good l uck on youre search i hope you find what you are looking for.
2007-03-12 01:47:51 · answer #4 · answered by furby_lost 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will be blessed if you just find 1 true friend in the course of your life. I have had many close friends come and go. Some friendships that I thought would last forever. I have 1 friend who has stuck by me through thick and thin for 15 years.
2007-03-12 01:44:23 · answer #5 · answered by Ladybugs77 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if they say no every time then they are not your real friends. Friendship begins with trust and concern for one-others being. Trust me sometimes those whom you consider your true friends break you slowly without you knowing it. True friends are hard to find but it's not impossible. It might take time too but have patience my friend. Think that everything around you is your friend then maybe the world might not seem to be a lonely place anymore.
2007-03-12 01:49:00 · answer #6 · answered by rhyme2rbr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep working at it. you need more acquaintances...friends too, but they are harder to come by.
Mingle...talk to a variety of people...find people who like to do things you like to do and invite them...even if it is something as simple as playing ball or something.
You just have to keep getting out there and continue to meet people. Be careful and don't tell them your whole life story...that is for "true friends" only. You will do fine, don't give up.
be cool...
2007-03-12 01:47:25 · answer #7 · answered by CC Babydoll 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it may, because of complacency, a lack of respect for another, and money and jealousy concerns. both activities ought to locate the fashion to be affected individual, tolerant and forgiving. A existence-lengthy loving relationship between 2 souls ought to certainly be between the most acceptable issues in existence, and to be deeply loved.
2016-12-01 21:15:23 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i can't understand why do u need a group of people just to go out? u need just one - to go out with, cos for a girl going out alone isn't acceptable. but if u don't have anyone to go out with - well, this is the problem - people don't like to go out with u even if u re paying for them. which is very strange. i guess u should analise your behavior and how and what about u re talking with people. maybe u talk stupid, or u re shallow or just unpleasant.
2007-03-12 01:45:10 · answer #9 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋