2007-03-12 01:33:48 · 15 answers · asked by ? 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
do you have any guy friends? if so, forget about the whole relationship crap. you can get some action from your buddies. youve heard of circle jerks and mutual masturbation, right? well... those are your tickets to pure bliss - which'll include (probably) kisses, hugs, sleeping face to face, crotches against crotches, someone else touching mr. dinkie, maybe even some oral...? this all depends on what you guys are comfortable doing, but at the VERY least, you'll get to see some dick.
you need porn. use porn as the lure. get one of your buddies over to spend the night... maybe say something like, 'hey! i got some porn today from some guy, wanna watch it?' (maybe thats too gay?) if he says YES, take him home, blah blah blah, blah blha--- wathch the porn, start jerkin off, and he'll be sure to follow. someone, either you or him, will say, 'i bet mine is bigger than yours,' or 'wanna race?' then it'll go on from there... and who knows? you may even develop a romantic relationship with him.. but i would try to avoid that.
good luck.
if this doesnt work, or if youve no guy friends, then... i suppose you can just wait. wait for college. wait and stop looking, cause he'll find you. believe in fate.. i guess.
JUST so you know--- im 18 and have never had a relationship of that sort. ive kissed another guy.. but it was during one of the above situations.. so i guess it was an 'experimental' kiss on his part, and for me, it was an 'i get to kiss another guy' kind a kiss. it surely wasnt one of "love." soooo, youre not alone. and there are PLENTY more.
2007-03-12 02:11:17 · answer #1 · answered by louie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey little brother, please take the advice of all these great gay and lesbian people - which is probably the same advice as most of the gay community. If you are still a virgin, you are one of the luckiest guys in the world. Don't be so quick to start romancing. Take your time and enjoy life a little, and Mr. Right will come into your life when God thinks it's the right time. If you jump the first guy who comes along, you might miss the perfect guy that God had planned for you. And the best piece of advice, is to not dream up your perfect guy and then expect that it's what you'll get. So many gay guys turn down true love because the guy they were destined to have wasn't handsome enough or rich enough or all kinds of other ridiculous stupid things. You might meet the right guy tomorrow, or next year or ten years from now. Just don't rush out there to get that first kiss. Save it for someone who is worthy of your heart.
2007-03-12 09:06:35 · answer #2 · answered by kjv_gods_word 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
at 17 i would say that you are at a tender age to know about the gay world but...... you should not be troubled to becoming into your first relationship as you only have to see the correct one to know if they are to be the correct one. it will just happen and you will know by the quickening of your heart when you are around the same
2007-03-12 09:01:43 · answer #3 · answered by candi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Think U gay? Never been Kissed? How the heck U know U gay? That's negative thinking. Let a big buxom redhead gal attack U once or twice............she'll probably rape you. You'll probably enjoy it. Hey, if U want try both sides of the street. But don't say You are gay without experience. That's the worst kind of narrow-minded thinking. Every bit as bad as fundamentalist Christians saying all gays go to hell. It's your choice but please make it with facts not speculation..
2007-03-12 09:11:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Well, gay or straight, it sometimes doesn't happen right when you want it. Relax, smile at people - especially the ones that you want to get to know - they'll get the message. But, be exclusive; gay or straight, be monogomous. The days of "Free Love" are so gone. I know I don't have to tell you to wear a condom. Be safe.
2007-03-12 08:43:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just because you are 17 doesn't mean that you should be worried. I know people in their 20s who haven't had their first kiss yet. It will happen in due time, don't worry.
2007-03-12 08:51:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Chill. It'll happen soon enough and there's nothing saying you have to have a first kiss or lose your virginity by a certain age. You'll always remember your first, so make sure you remember it fondly and not with regret because he was a loser.
2007-03-12 13:49:56 · answer #7 · answered by JW 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why are you so in a hurry? Love comes when you least expect it. The more you get impatient, the more you're gonna lose yourself. Enjoy life. Grow up to be a more responsible person.
2007-03-12 08:57:19 · answer #8 · answered by sheer♥black 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont listen to that bigot.be yourself and it will happen in time.find a place with gay singles.im sure there places besides gay bars,look for places in your area on the computer.i dont mean individuals that might pray on young gays ,but real groups
2007-03-12 08:44:10 · answer #9 · answered by woodsonhannon53 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is best to wait. It will come at the most unexpected time and will be the biggest and best surprise of your life!
2007-03-12 08:41:41 · answer #10 · answered by Mando 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋