my hubby moved out 2 months ago took his dog and all of his stuff went to live with his mom and sister 2 weeks ago he started to come back telling me he wants this marrage to work he really dont gives me money for food are bill at the moment i am out looking for a job he is telling me thu,fri,sat, nights he has to go back to be with his dog , i know im a fool; for puting up with this all of his stuff is in storage and he is keeping it that way he onley has a hand full of clothing here i guess what i am asking is whats a wrong with this ma
2007-03-12 01:26:02 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would tell him to either move back home full time and contribute to your saving your marriage or stay out for good and file for a divorce. Kind of odd that he has to go home weekends for his dog. Any reason why the dog cannot be with you both at your home since the dog was there in the first place? Sounds way too fishy.
2007-03-12 01:48:11 · answer #1 · answered by kalea_kane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it is so hard to end a marriage. The vows we take does say until death do we part. However you can not make a man stay. Don't let him walk on you. It sounds like he is giving you false hope. If he want this to work. Make him work to get you back. Then if he trys hard enough you can see if he really wants the marriage to work. Don't let him keep hurting you over and over again. This could go on for months if you let him drag it out.You deserve better.
2007-03-12 02:05:20 · answer #2 · answered by Janst 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your hubby wants his cake and eat it too he probuly has another lady which he has told he left u and she visits him at his moms house on the weekends her days off but he isnt ready to leave u completely u are taking care of him and he knows u will do anything for him
2007-03-12 01:38:30 · answer #3 · answered by Dee Dee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-01 23:52:28 · answer #4 · answered by leeks 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong with him. You are allowing him to come and go as he pleases. So he has his cake and eats it too.
Put a new lock on your door. Pack his clothes, and leave it outside the door before you lock it. If you stick to your guns long enough he will get the message.
2007-03-12 01:47:54 · answer #5 · answered by michelebaruch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be with his dog?? this is a new one on me.. since when does a dog or anything else come before his wife?? this guy is a bum, if he dont take care of you..throw his stuff out in the street and get on with your life,, cause he sure has it made , living at his mothers and no responsibility now.. are you from USA? or are you from another country?? coz no one would put up with this guy long in the USA.
2007-03-12 01:42:34 · answer #6 · answered by wongfiehung2003 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Kill the dog and tell him to come home and do right, if not sign the papers and let him know that dogs are not womens best friend and that your sure you can find something to play with!
2007-03-12 01:44:14 · answer #7 · answered by shocker83_fear_me23 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Most probably he's been thrown out by his mom and sisters and has no where else to go except you. Drop him completely and move on with your life.
2007-03-12 01:29:47 · answer #8 · answered by SGElite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You two need to sit down together and discuss where you want your marriage and your lives to go.
If you both want to stay in the marriage you need to seek help with a marriage counselor.
2007-03-12 01:29:34 · answer #9 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he wants to get some again. Must not be as easy elsewhere as he thought.
2007-03-12 01:30:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋