what should i do?

Question

should i ?
i am at university in my first year right now doing bachelor of commerce but its getting so hard for now.its like almost every lecture i go to i walk out of it blank ,i dont understand i thing ,i tryed asking 4 some help about its doesnt help , may be university isnt for mewell like right now i have got 5 pages of questions i have to answer and hand in tommorow morning and i cant do then coz i dont understand a thing on them ., should i drop out??? what will i do afterwards i am only 18 and my parents paid a lot of money for me to come to this university . i dont think education is for me , but i dont know what to do , ?????????????????????????...

and in my family everyone is brainly , my sister is an accountant and my brother is a lawyer

Answer 1

Okay, breathe! You are getting yourself all worked up! Your issues are the same that many people have.

First consider speaking with your counselor to evaluate your issues. Perhaps you can get a tutor to get you over this hump. If you are all worked up and convinced you are failing, you are entering your classes setup for failure.

Try and relax, take a deep breath, take notes, record the class, etc. This way you can go back to the lecture.

Seriously. Nothing that is of value in this world comes easy. You can not even begin to imagine the doors that your education will open for you. It may not matter much now, but when you are settled in life, with a family, etc every penny will make a world of difference.

Hang in there and do the things that need to get done to help you. You have an opportunity that many wish they had, don't waste it.

Good luck!

Answer 2

Your first year is always going to be the hardest year. Not only are you being challenged academically, but you are dealing with a ton of other life changes.

Do you have an academic counselor? You need to go talk to them about the issues you are having. Chances are they have resources to help you get throught this. Or you might need to change your major. If you mess up your courses, you can always re take them. Yes, you could be put on academic probation but thatis better than quitting. Think about your long term goals...where do you want to be sitting in a year--in three years?

DO NOT DROP OUT. Quitting now will put you years behind and you will regret it. The things you are going through now are what a good percentage of other first years go through so you are not alone. Think of this stuff as the transition experience-next year you will have it much better.

Answer 3

well don think dat studies r not for u.i think there is lack of concentration nd nothing more.u must do meditation it will really help u a lot.if u r forgetting anything u wil not nd it will increase ur mental power.be positive nd d question wat u hv to give 2 morrow(5 pages) i think u can do atleast 2 of them.nd aftr doing dat much u will gain congidence nd u can do better.