is it better or worse then you thought...
2007-03-12 01:15:05 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Its BETTER than I thought! :) Im so glad God gave me a husband to cherish and to be there with me everyday to walk through life with :) I love Him more than anything, and its so fun getting to know him better each day!
Marriage has its ups and downs, but the Downs shouldnt reflect your marriage or get in the way, they should be stepping tools to a better marriage! :) Communication.
2007-03-12 01:22:11 · answer #1 · answered by Encouragement 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Marriage can be great if you have 2 people working on the same goal together (ie if you both want it to be great than it will be great).
Marriage is not so great when one or the other or both start exhibiting selfish behavior, taking each other for granted, or any of the many, many ways people choose to screw things up.
Also, I cannot stress enough that if you don't really KNOW the person you are marrying you have no idea of how much pain you can end up in in the end.
2007-03-12 09:37:22 · answer #2 · answered by Ker Plunk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately its alot "harder" then i ever imagined.. doesnt mean i dont love him, its just been a very bumpy start.. its nothing like i thought it would be, or thought i was getting into.. but at the same time we love each other very much and are trying to work through our problems in hopes of them eventually rectifying.. And it would go alot smoother if his psychotic ex wife would fall off the face of the planet.. but thats not going to happen , so we are trying to just deal with her insanity..
2007-03-12 08:52:31 · answer #3 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ive been married 3 months now and the first few months were soooo hard. I wasnt sure if we were gonna make it. But it was just us adjusting bc with every week things keep getting better and i love it so much now.
2007-03-12 09:10:17 · answer #4 · answered by breezy_er 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's better. We've been married almost 19 years, and every year has been better than the last. He's so much fun!
2007-03-12 08:18:00 · answer #5 · answered by Scoots 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its the best and more when you get the gift to share with each other and when Gods the center of it holding it all together and guiding our lives and family .yes their is ups and downs but you grow closer all the time when walking together through it all ,theirs always room for improving and more fun.
2007-03-12 08:30:53 · answer #6 · answered by Duck / Deer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really don't think I had any specific expectations when we first got married. We've been together 36 years, and I'm very happy with our relationship.
2007-03-12 10:45:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Better, my husband is my best friend and the best thing is that we constantly make each other laugh. My husband is the greatest guy in the world, and I am the luckiest woman in the world to be married to him.
2007-03-12 08:30:30 · answer #8 · answered by sweetpea22306 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i got married at 19, im now 32 and 4 kids later its fantastic
2007-03-12 08:18:55 · answer #9 · answered by ROCKMUM LOVES BOWIE 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i expected it to be like a pre trial hell on earth and that is pretty much what it is. so yes i guess
2007-03-12 09:03:51 · answer #10 · answered by simplyme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋