It seems like lately people have been hating on pregnant women and young people with kids. What's the deal people? Jealous or something?
2007-03-12 01:03:50 · 6 answers · asked by srjmhottie17 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Oh yeah, and they seem to have a problem with me wanting to get divorced after 7 MISERABLE months of being married to an asshole. No, he wasn't like that when I married him....it started about a month after.
2007-03-12 01:10:02 · update #1
i know i agree. some people are ready to have kids at a young age. take me for an example i am 17 and my 24 year old cousin just had a baby. i think i know more about her baby and what he needs then she does. i think if i had a baby now at 17 i would be just as good as being a mum now then if i was 30
oh yeah and take notice of this young parents are better then old ones. look at the parents who had kids when they were 30+ and now the kids are teenagers, i can guarentee that the rebels at raves and out drinking have parents who had them at an old age, its simple when your 50 and have teenagers your not going to remember the tricks to sneaking out n stuff or sometimes they probably dident even have raves or sneak out. young mums are tuned in to todays society and know when their kids are lying to them.
so yes stop bagging on young mums !!!!!
2007-03-12 01:26:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I've seen your other previous questions and I must say you are one very angry person at the moment. Perhaps it is the stress in your life which makes you a little more sensitive to percieve criticism where none is intended, and unable to blow off the ignorant opinions you hear. I don't think most sensible people have anything against you personally, mothers of young children or pregnant women. I'm not really sure what all is going on in your life or your head, but I do hope you are able to find some help to aid you through what seems to be a really tough spot in your life. Speaking as a retired military person, military spouse and former military brat, I can tell you that it is stressful enough on all those fronts. There are resources available to you to help you through it all. If you are truly that newly married, and have no previous experience with military life, it could be both you and hubbie could benefit from seeking out some of that help. Try to check out the Family Support Services. Go see any one of the chaplains- even if you are not particularly religious. These folks are all there to help you out. Perhaps with this help, and it is help, believe it or not- you can get some perspective on the problems and form some sensible solutions to solve them. Don't let the anger and stress weigh you down, get some help and get your life back on track. And quit looking for enemies so hard. Most of us don't know you well enough to care to be jealous enemies.
2007-03-12 08:24:40 · answer #2 · answered by The mom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not that people hate on young people with kids, its just sad that a lot of young people are having kids. Its like babies having babies. A lot of these girls are in school and not to say that they ruined their life, but it is much harder. I say every woman to her own and if she is young and willing to raise a child, more power to her. I feel for young girls because it seems to be much harder. I myself am young, 21, unmarried, not with the father and I seem to be doing just fine myself. It is hard, but that was the choice I made when I chose to have sex. I have two cousins, one is 15 and the other one is 17. They both have kids and I see the struggle that they go through. I dont think people are jealous, just upset that these girls didnt wait to live thier lives a little bit and then start a family.
2007-03-12 08:21:34 · answer #3 · answered by ProudMommy_1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My guess is that people are angry that young girls seem to be getting pregnant too young........(I'm talking 15, 16 years old). But if you are married and in a place fiancially and mentally to be having a kid, then what's the issue?
2007-03-12 08:08:02 · answer #4 · answered by ♥Mommy to 3 year old Jacob and baby on the way♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what are you talking about?
why would somebody be jealous.
this forum is to try and help people. Everybody has different opinion about life so keeping that in mind you should respect what others are trying to say as i guess everybody over here tries to be honest to themselves and advise what they think is best for you.
I hope you are getting my point
2007-03-12 08:11:51 · answer #5 · answered by sabse-sundar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh yea thats it.we are so jealous that a child themself are having children. It doesnt matter that they are not old enough to take care of themselves let alone a baby to. Yea thats it, wow why not think about the ??? yourself
2007-03-12 08:10:42 · answer #6 · answered by Sunshine 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋