I have met him for coffee, a few times, we decided we are friends. However we are in contact a lot, almost every day, and we have been together aswell. We fancy each other definitely. He text me I was lovely, and said he was looking forward to seeing me. When we met the last time we kissed straight away. We will be meeting again early this week. Now I do like him, I was just wondering how to proceed further with this? Any advice? It is a big change for me as I was involved with someone else, for the last year. Although I wasn't v happy in the relationship, I was on my own a lot, and sometimes felt I would have been better off single. I always liked the guy I am meeting now. In fact he made a bigger impression on me initially at first when I met him about a year and a half ago.
I do like him and we are getting on gr8. I get the impression that he felt he was the rebound guy 2 wks ago, and we both decided we were friend but now I like him and he likes me. What should I do?
2007-03-12 01:03:32 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you should be with him, and tell him you like him :) its a new start...go for it!
2007-03-15 09:27:56 · answer #1 · answered by Eevaya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
rite sweetie, firstly, tread carefully. i know you like eachother and it sounds like a gd thing could come out of this friendship, but don't make the mistake of falling for the first person you meet after a relationbship ends.
it's definately gd that he's looking forward to seeing youa gain and that you kissed as soon as you met, but you said it yourself; he felt like he might be a rebound guy.
you have to work hard to make him see that's not what he is to you. you have to show him that you care bout what he thinks and feels too and it's not just someone to take your mind of the pain you may be feeling after your other relationship. i suggest you go on dates; coffee, a movie, bowling, a dance group or an art class. something that interests you both. my partner of two yrs and i both joined a creative writing class, because we're both into writing and it's something i'd wanted to do for a long time. so after a couple of dates involving bowling with a group of mate, cakes and tea one afternoon and a movie followed by a meal one evening, i signed up for this writing class and he suprised me by doing the same the next week. not only did we have something that was important to both of us to discuss, i got to see a lot more of what h was like inside, through his writing.
it wa awesome.
i suggest you do similar. it worked for me; we're now happily living together in a lovely village and planning on marrying soon.
i wish you all luck and happiness in the world sweetheart
indie
xxxxxx
2007-03-12 01:16:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go on with what you are doing but keep your head
if you jump into a full blown relationship you will probably fail.
people should not think with their emotions and try to take a little time to see if this is what can endure the test of time
good luck..it sounds like you got of to a good start
but a rebound guy is not a good catch...give him some time to adjust.
2007-03-12 01:15:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u like him give it a shot. There's no harm in trying once again. Maybe it'll help you move forward and forget over the past. As you are saying that 'it'll give you a chance' so why not? And who knows maybe this was the special someone. But as I always say be careful, a second heartbreak is difficult to handle. But as they say be optimistic.
2007-03-12 01:17:25 · answer #4 · answered by rhyme2rbr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you like him and he likes you discuss it. Start dating more, take it to the next step. Make sure he knows he isn't the "rebound choice". Don't push too fast, but start trying to date more and spending more time with them. Take your time; Sure, the early bird catches the worm, but the second rat gets the cheese....
2007-03-12 02:18:42 · answer #5 · answered by Soul Man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
greater useful be sure that he rather did wreck up with you on the computing device. He could be a coward (which isn't unusual for boys, on condition that they in many circumstances lack social skills), yet somebody ought to be enjoying a trick. it is not too stressful to spoof somebody's e mail or IM. call him or meet him head to head, and get the reality.
2016-12-18 11:36:19 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can either base your relationships on feelings or commitments. If you base them on feelings, then when the feelings ae gone so is the relationship. Try commitment. It lasts longer and you stay in control.
2007-03-12 01:31:52 · answer #7 · answered by Ashok M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my advise is to take it one day at a time don't put pressure on each other to become involved straight away give your self time to ajust to someone new other wise you could end up hurt
2007-03-12 01:23:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep your head up and just do whatyou are doing it sounds like you really like each other and things will grow as time goes on. good luck
2007-03-12 03:33:28 · answer #9 · answered by lady z 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it girl, sounds like you deserve it ~ life is far to short to worry about the what ifs......
keeps us updated with how its going :-)
2007-03-12 02:22:58 · answer #10 · answered by Hey there 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel like you're putting too much pressure on yoursellf just be yourself and let nature do what it will.
2007-03-15 22:46:12 · answer #11 · answered by justine e 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋