When I was having full body massage, after turning to lay on my back, the masseur didn't put a towel on me so my penis was exposed and frankly, this made me erect...
He massaged me every where but didn't touch my penis. But he was very very close to it (massaging around the base)...
Is this normal?
When I go again, will he do the same or he'll get the courage to touch more?
2007-03-12 00:53:36 · 9 answers · asked by toon 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Do you mean normal in the sense that you got an erection or that the guy did not touch you? It is normal (perhaps “not unusual” is a better description) for guys (gay, bi, or straight) to possibly get an erection when being messaged so close to that area - especially if he was as close as being around the base. The penis is a muscles and is stimuled, among many things, by touch. However, if you are asking if it is normal for him to just touch you there, then no - despite whether he is or isn’t gay. If he is a real "professional" he will probably not, and you are probably not the first guy to get an erection during one of his messages either.
If you are gay, and he is too, and you both find an attraction to each other, as long as you are sending out the right consenting signals that it is alright for him to "message you" in that way - he might do it depending on how bold he is. Either way, seems like you at least want that, so if this is the case, all I say is keep requesting him specifically when you do go back and he should catch on. Good luck & cheers!
2007-03-12 01:14:16 · answer #1 · answered by Answer-Me-This 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What you received is a legitimate massage. If his advertisement , profile, or description of his services do not mention 'erotic massage" then he will not be massaging your penis. It has nothing to do with courage. It has everything to do with professionalism.
However, depending on where you live or where the massage was performed, he should have kept you "draped." In some places it is illegal to allow the genitals to show; it gives the client privacy.
The whole point of a massage is to stimulate the muscles. It is very normal to get an erection during a massage.
2007-03-12 08:10:33 · answer #2 · answered by behrmark 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
According to my knowledge, the towel should be on ur 'unworked' body... and genitals never exposed...
But maybe this place (or country) is ok with nudity, so no big deal...
Being erect... normal during massage (as told by my b/f)....
Not touching ur penis... this is proffessionalism...
Next time, i think he'll do exactly the same (not touching ur penis) but I guess that he'll spend more time around ur penis as he knows now that u enjoyed it...
2007-03-12 08:49:01 · answer #3 · answered by Lovely 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you had a nice massage. The erection was just your body respopnding as it normally would to stimulation.
Sounds like you wanted more to happen but you know that could be a sticky situtation (pun intended). If the same thing happens again while he is massaging your base say something like, "Do you offer any other services?" If he says, "Like what" say "Oh I don't know like facial massages or intimate massages...."
2007-03-12 13:50:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Mmm, sounds good... Wouldn't mind a massage like that!
I'd go back to confirm whether it's standard procedure, or if you can get more.
Good luck!!!
2007-03-12 08:11:07 · answer #5 · answered by Soren 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think it is normal. I am sure that your masseur has seen it many times, so don't fret.
2007-03-12 08:27:44 · answer #6 · answered by happybibottom 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe I watch too many movies but he might want some action....Or just takes it as a job routine!
2007-03-12 08:00:50 · answer #7 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if it was me
I go again
2007-03-12 09:56:18 · answer #8 · answered by P 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's normal if you're gay and wondering about it.
2007-03-12 07:59:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋