Do you care/worry about what other people think of you?

Question

Also, do you judge people unfairly?

Answer 1

Oh man WAY too much. No. I do not judge others. And when I find that I am judging, I give myself the nose in the book punishment.

Answer 2

It doesn't matter what people say when they say they don't care what others think because we all at some point in our life will have some worry or care. It just that different people have different perceptions of what they call a worry or a care.

Sadly it does not matter how hard you try not to judge somebody and how we worry about other judging us. We do it. Maybe you see that 40 year old woman dressed like shes 21 or that character on a soap who is behaving in a crazy way. Your mind is working over time judging them even though you may never speak and ill word its still in your head. Also on a night out its so easy to get mulled in with your friend into seeing that guy at the bar as a looser or that girl looking like a tramp or even guys thinking a girl is a minger.

Its just human nature to have opinions and to stereotype its part of who we are and how we are.

Answer 3

I used to worry but now I honestly dont give a stuff. I probably do judge people unfairly - well, if they pi$s me off then I will subconciously blame them for everything!

Answer 4

Nope, I have long ceased to give a damn what other people think of me. I like me, my family likes me, what do I care if someone I don't know thinks something bad about me? It's a message I am trying to get through to my 8 year old daughter but she's a lot more sensitive than I am, so it's an uphill struggle. I think half the problem now with youngsters getting eating disorders is peer pressure, and if I can stop her worrying about other people's opinions, I figure thats one part of the battle fought.

As for judging people? Everyone does it, anyone who says they don't is a liar. I also think that, unfortunately, women tend to be the worst at judging people on sight. It's sad, but just a fact of life.

Answer 5

No. And I don't judge people unfairly. I've been banned twice because I've told the truth.

Answer 6

i would love to say no i don't care what people think and sometimes i have moments when i really do start to believe that i don't, however the truth is that it is very difficult not to when the world we live in does it all of the time! all you have to do is turn on the TV or pick up a magazine! too fat, too skinny, not dressed well, bad hair, bad choice! how can you not begin to believe this stuff!!??!!
And have i ever judged someone...yes....have i been wrong....yes! but i have learnt to keep the judgement i make to myself and find out what the person is really like!

Answer 7

nowadays not really. all the people who have knocked me down in the past have nothing on me whatsoever. evidently i don't bother wasting my time with them. however, i don't judge others, well i hardly do. i don't judge others for the opinions that they have, in the same way i don't judge others because of their sexuality, ethnicity, nationality, age, gender etc. but what i do object to is being treated like crap, which certain people have done. when i was a kid, i used to ponder what others thought about me, frankly though as i have gotten older, i couldn't give a toss. well, the only people of whom i don't give them the time of day are those who have caused me heartache, grief and trauma. so i don't care what other people think of me, other than my best friends and the people at university, but nor do i worry what others say and think about me. i don't care one way or another if you don't like me for various reasons; besides, you cannot expect to like every person you've met and known in your life, particuarly those who don't see eye to eye with. as that's just life

Answer 8

i dont care what people think but i do judge unfairly,ill try to stop

Answer 9

Nooo... I don't care/worry about 'em, but I do judge people out of the blue, and I am trying not to do that, but unfortunately, judging people just comes naturally to me. I hate it.

Answer 10

I always worried about what people thought of me and how they might be talking about me.
I even went through a stage after having both my kids that i couldnt take them out incase confrontation happened and i couldnt do anything.
Then i started work in a pub a couple of evenings and the stick you get made me think you no wot i dont care wot you think i can have a back bone after all. learn to love yourself and then other will follow!!
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