i do value honesty very much. i want to know if my girl friend has given a birth or not.is there any person or organazation whom i can talk to find out if she is telling me the truth? i did offer her all the opportunities to accept her even she has a baby.i do hear a rumors that she has a baby but she keep telling me she doesnt have any. i want to find out the truth but i dont know how ..please help me!!!!!!!!!!!! i dont want to be called a foolish person
2007-03-12 00:37:23 · 13 answers · asked by SHASHE 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Her family would be able to tell you. I see this relationship failing rapidly. If you cannot take her word as the truth to your questions, you will always have doubts about anything else she says. It is either time to accept her answers or move on.
2007-03-12 00:44:10 · answer #1 · answered by sensible_man 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that most of us agree that, if there is no trust within a relationship, all else falls apart. You can either choose to trust her and truly let it go or you can continue to distrust and push and prod and drive yourself(and her) crazy with your inquiries. Perhaps a real heart-to-heart talk would help . If the two of you could sit down and quietly, without accusation or anger just lay it on the line how important this issue is to you and trust is to your future together. You might just ask yourself, what if she does admit to having given birth. Will that change your feelings for her or will you still feel she is untrustworthy since she didn't tell you initially? I'm sure if she's not telling you, there are reasons why. And I am certain you have your reasons for wanting to know the answer. Either way, please consider what you really hope to accomplish by being with with this person- -both for you and for her. Take care.
2007-03-12 01:02:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you obviously don't trust your girlfriend then if you don't believe what she says. if she would have had a baby then there would be tale tale signs like stretch marks and bigger breasts. if she swears she has not then start to believe her before you lose her. i can understand u don't want 2 be called foolish. but your behaviour is going 2 push her away. you need to trust her. at the moment you are being foolish.
2007-03-12 01:11:05 · answer #3 · answered by dimples 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OhmyGOd! If she's not telling you about her own child, then the ***** is crazy and you don't need to be with her. If she can Deny that then could you imagine what else she won't tell you. That is something else.
2007-03-12 01:19:15 · answer #4 · answered by one ina million 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have such doubts why you are still loving her. Leave her. That good way about making your life peaceful. Other wise your like will be miserable
2007-03-12 00:56:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't take her word as truth and start digging around behind her back, you won't be calling her your girlfriend any more. Sorry.
2007-03-12 00:41:53 · answer #6 · answered by jacquie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she says no then you have to trust her. why does it matter if you love her anyway? you are not a foolish person for falling in love and trusting what your partner tells you.
2007-03-12 00:41:51 · answer #7 · answered by crackermelons 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont go behind her back like you are now, when shes ready she will tell you, untill then, how about living in this time, and not in her past!?
2007-03-12 00:42:45 · answer #8 · answered by Fader's Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are honest, directly ask her about the past. If you really love her, trust her.
2007-03-12 00:42:36 · answer #9 · answered by hertzvadodara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TRUST HER! If you don't have any trust in her then you two shouldn't be together. Has she given you a reason not to trust her?
2007-03-12 00:42:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋