I feel you on this one. My ex in-laws were a force to be reckoned with. His mother was the "know-it-all" who had to interject her opinion whether we wanted it or not.
What I did was sit my husband down and explain how I felt. He agreed with my sentiment, which made it easier. If your husband doesn't agree with you, maybe it's best to make your point loud and clear and leave until he wises up. Good luck to you. :)
2007-03-12 00:42:56
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answered by VHagerty 5
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You need to make your husband understand that it is extremely uncomfortable living under the same roof as your in laws and that it is time for you's to stand on your own 2 feet and that means moving out with him or without him. You need to have some freedom and with your in laws being there i can't see you getting any of your own space. It must be a very difficult situation but i'm afraid that sooner or later something is going to give. I've been in this situation and i can tell you it sucks and i would never do it again.
2007-03-12 07:45:42
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answered by jimmy_chick78 4
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Let your husband know that living with his parents is not a good idea because in a marriage there should be independence & separation from the parents.
Then start saving your money if that's necessary.....set a date to move and then do it.
2007-03-12 08:41:22
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answered by daljack -a girl 7
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This is very hard on BOTH marriages.
The two of you need to save up and move into a place of your own. Work two jobs each if you have to. I am sure that it is causing your in-laws some added stress having the two of you there as well.
For reasons that are obvious, this arrangement RARELY works out.
Good luck.
2007-03-12 07:52:28
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answered by Anonymous
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let me see if i got this right?
first you dated this guy and fell in love and married him.
OK
now you live with his parents in their home (cheap rent_) and its unbearable.
now you come to strangers on the Internet for helping you out
OK
GO to husband. Tell him your concerns. If he agrees with you good. If he says no...then give him a time limit when you will move out on your own as this lifestyle is not working out for you and you will be moving out with or without him.
Then do it..its your life..if you don't then come back on line and ask another question as this is better then going to a shrink
2007-03-12 07:50:06
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answered by Anonymous
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I'm guessing you are saying that you live in the same house as your inlaws...
I suggest that you have REALLY loud sex, so loud that your husband feels extremely embarrassed and decides that he MUST move out.
2007-03-12 07:42:32
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answered by Anonymous
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tell hubby you need some space and want to be alone with him that its time you 2 have your own place, just dont bad mouth his parents after all they are his mom and dad and you wouldnt want him to bad mouth your family
2007-03-12 07:42:00
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answered by emma 3
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if you could move out, why havent you?
i figure you live there because you cant affored to moveout
2007-03-12 07:42:12
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answered by bronzebabekentucky 7
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talk to ur husband, ask him u or they
2007-03-12 07:41:27
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answered by Anonymous
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