Okay background: I've been friends with this girl lets call her Galena, since I was a baby. We have the same interests and hobbies and shes also a lesbian. We've never gone out but she asked me today right out if I'd marry her. I thought she was joking but she pulled out a ring and got down on one knee. I've always secretly loved her but should I get engaged with her?
2007-03-12 00:18:00 · 15 answers · asked by Conseption 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Yeeeeeeeeeeeeeeah! I say get engaged to her! That is the MOST WONDERFUL THING EVER! To be best friends since birth and now to be lovers and partners! Congratulations!
2007-03-12 00:21:26 · answer #1 · answered by greenbuddha03 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
If you love her, and can see yourself spending the rest of your life with her; then I don't see what the problem is.
My best friend and I are in a sexual relationship at the moment. We are so into each other it's almost animalistic; if he proposed to me, I would accept in a heart-beat. Problem is, he's already married. If you wait to long to do what makes you happy, the opportunity might pass you by, never to be presented again.
2007-03-12 01:25:28 · answer #2 · answered by Soren 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I would most def. You guys get along well and have a connection. But you only know if it will get akward or not. I wish 2 lesbiens would ask me if they could marry me. Just my life fantasy. But I say yes. Do it. Why not. You love her don't you. Follow your heart not your gut.
2007-03-12 02:33:08 · answer #3 · answered by Some Random Guy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HELL YES!! My "wife" is my best friend - and we've been together ten years this month.
Nothing more romantic than being able to say you've loved each other from the cradle to the grave.
2007-03-12 00:30:18 · answer #4 · answered by Angelpaws 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Since you "secretly" loved her I think it wasn't a secret to her. Say yes and have a great life.
2007-03-12 02:42:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
galena?couldnt you have found another name?ha ha,kidding.say yes but keep in mind that youll not be open the way you guys used to be
2007-03-12 00:39:43 · answer #6 · answered by zama n 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should try dating first if you are attracted to each other before you commit to marriage.
2007-03-12 01:39:05 · answer #7 · answered by Angelo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love her and want to be in a long-term relationship with her, then go for it!
2007-03-12 21:27:14 · answer #8 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds verry romantic!!!if it was me and i secretly loved the person i would go for it!!!!
if you dnt take the chance now you will always wonder......
good luck and if you say yes....CONGRATS!!!!!
2007-03-12 00:25:20 · answer #9 · answered by (,'')Sweet guy 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Awww, yes! I'd marry my best friend if she wasn't a she.. and if then he was gay. Haha. Yes. Go for it.
2007-03-12 00:21:45 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋